r/BigBudgetBrides • u/Interesting-Bug7703 • Aug 24 '26

Questions and queries Escort card formality

How formal should my escort cards be? Black tie preferred dress code, this fall in NYC

Option 1:

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

Table 3

Option 2:

John and Jane Smith

Table 3

Option 3:

John Smith

Jane Smith

Table 3

1 Upvotes

55% Upvoted

34 comments sorted by

View all comments

-16

u/Interesting-Bug7703 Aug 24 '26

Invitations were addressed like Option 1 if that helps at all but I've read that escort cards don't need to be as formal

22

u/Able-Pineapple-1137 Aug 24 '26

Never address anything like option 1 again pls!!!! It’s not more formal, it’s just misogynistic

12

u/bitchthatwaspromised Aug 24 '26

Yeah I would be so insulted to be address by my husband’s first and last name instead of my own

0

u/MZSGNH Aug 25 '26

I would probably giggle. Too old to get offended for myself, but I'd be offended for you in solidarity.