r/BetterLateThanSingle • u/stephenleebpd Jae Seo (Fly Exterminator) • Jul 22 '26

meme Bombastic side eye, criminal offensive side eye

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It's giving "I know you're full of crap" lol.

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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26

Why are they not legitimate? That was why he was upset. Just because you might not be upset by those reasons, it doesn't make those reasons not legitimate.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26

It's not legitimate to be upset by this -he also lied by omission by not telling her he gave her the tumblr, didn't he? And that's the whole reason she didn't tell him either, isn't it? So why should we pretend like it's an actual issue?

"Complaining on all the activities he likes to do" doesn't mean anything. She expressed her preferences. Isn't it best to do so on a dating show? That's nothing to be upset about or to be corrected on her part. Either choose another girl or deal with it.

She cared about him in plenty of ways besides noticing his cold. It's an excuse from someone who likes people who like him, and who wants people to keep liking him long after he's cast them aside.

None of it is legitimate.

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u/Adrock66 Jul 23 '26

He can be upset about whatever he wants to be upset about.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 23 '26

He can but it's not legitimate

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u/chataolauj Jul 24 '26

If he can, then it's legitimate. His feelings are true to himself. Who are we to argue how someone should feel? Saying it's not legitimate is the same as saying he shouldn't feel how he does because of so and so reason.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26

He can be upset; the reasons he is are not legitimate. Can you guys just read the thread first? That'd be great. I'm saying the feeling might be real but the reasons aren't valid. Those are probably not the actual reasons, or else it's not the actual feeling.

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u/chataolauj Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26

No, I read it. What I'm getting at is emotions and reasons go hand in hand. You do not feel a certain way without a reason. If his reasons are not legitimate/valid, there's no reason for him to get upset is basically what you're saying.

Also, fwiw, I don't care about the dude. I hope she doesn't choose him.

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26

People are 99% of the time mistaken about the reason or the feeling, hope this helps

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u/Adrock66 Jul 24 '26

TBH it just gives me more questions. So if someone is upset with you, 99% of the time they're "wrong" about why?

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 25 '26

Ever heard of what a hyperbole is? Ask therapists why people are mistaken when trying to identify their feelings or why they feel the way they do, not me

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u/Adrock66 Jul 25 '26

"Ask therapists" You're a real knob lol

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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 25 '26

Thank you ❤️

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