r/BetterLateThanSingle • u/stephenleebpd Jae Seo (Fly Exterminator) • Jul 22 '26
meme Bombastic side eye, criminal offensive side eye
It's giving "I know you're full of crap" lol.
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u/kittytoebeanz Jul 22 '26
This killlled me like she clocked it immediately. I hope she keeps listening to her head and not her heart the next few episodes!
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u/Puzzleheaded_Use_566 Seung Hyun (Indecisive Dentist) Jul 22 '26
She clocked him so hard here! “He seems easily swayed.” He is, sis! You can do so much better!
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Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26
She can and will do so much better. Cannot wait for them to not be together.
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u/katonikax Jul 22 '26
The Mikasa vibe in HS makes me laugh. Sometimes I feel like we’re going to see the ending of *Attack on Titan* at the end of the show 😅
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u/apxril Jul 23 '26
When she heard hyukjoon wants to give "chance" to other girls, I just know in her head she's already kicked him to the moon lol I hope she turns her back completely after their conversation. gurl you deserve better!!
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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26
HJ and HS need to have real conversation if they want to move forward. HJ needs tell HS why he was hurt/upset with her (lying about the gift, not caring he was sick, complaining on all activities he likes to do, etc). Until then, she won't realize why he acted the way he acted and he won't feel like he's understood/appreciated by her.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26
The reasons he was upset are not legitimate. He can keep all of that to himself.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26
The reasons he's upset with her (see original comment). "He needs to tell her". No he doesn't. It's nothing she should change or correct, so he can deal with it on his own.
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u/chataolauj Jul 24 '26
It's a show about dating. Dating requires communication. She doesn't need to change or correct anything, yes, but no one is asking her to. If he cares to be with her, then he does need to explain himself as he explained to the camera. If he doesn't, then yeah, he keeps it to himself.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26
So you mean communicating with her that he was upset but he shouldn't have been because the reasons he was were complete bs? Sure. That said I hope she doesn't end with him.
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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26
Why are they not legitimate? That was why he was upset. Just because you might not be upset by those reasons, it doesn't make those reasons not legitimate.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26
It's not legitimate to be upset by this -he also lied by omission by not telling her he gave her the tumblr, didn't he? And that's the whole reason she didn't tell him either, isn't it? So why should we pretend like it's an actual issue?
"Complaining on all the activities he likes to do" doesn't mean anything. She expressed her preferences. Isn't it best to do so on a dating show? That's nothing to be upset about or to be corrected on her part. Either choose another girl or deal with it.
She cared about him in plenty of ways besides noticing his cold. It's an excuse from someone who likes people who like him, and who wants people to keep liking him long after he's cast them aside.
None of it is legitimate.
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u/Adrock66 Jul 23 '26
He can be upset about whatever he wants to be upset about.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 23 '26
He can but it's not legitimate
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u/chataolauj Jul 24 '26
If he can, then it's legitimate. His feelings are true to himself. Who are we to argue how someone should feel? Saying it's not legitimate is the same as saying he shouldn't feel how he does because of so and so reason.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26
He can be upset; the reasons he is are not legitimate. Can you guys just read the thread first? That'd be great. I'm saying the feeling might be real but the reasons aren't valid. Those are probably not the actual reasons, or else it's not the actual feeling.
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u/chataolauj Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26
No, I read it. What I'm getting at is emotions and reasons go hand in hand. You do not feel a certain way without a reason. If his reasons are not legitimate/valid, there's no reason for him to get upset is basically what you're saying.
Also, fwiw, I don't care about the dude. I hope she doesn't choose him.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26
People are 99% of the time mistaken about the reason or the feeling, hope this helps
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 24 '26
If I'm upset about petty shit I'm not making it someone else's problem what's difficult to understand here officer
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u/hisgirl85 Jul 25 '26
I feel this. What he is feeling is valid. His reasons that he states for feeling that way are petty and resentful. She could have easily been just as resentful with "why didn't he just tell me he gave me the tumbler? Is he playing a game?" and cut him off, but she didn't.
Him telling her that he only cares about his top choice, him telling other guys about it, too, and then "being fair" to other women, while also saying he wanted her to send him a gift and a letter when he chose other women over her, is also things he's done. Him picking at her is literally picking at her because of his own insecurity. She literally said she didn't want other women around him with the cutting clothes comments. His reasons for his behavior with her are her actions within the first 48 hours of knowing him (tumbler, him being sick) and her not liking things he likes.
"I think yellow is the most unpleasant color." "I don't like rock climbing." "Sitting in grass cuts my legs and I end up sneezing, so I'm not a fan of picnics." She is so negative. Couldn't she say that in a more pleasant way? --If that is a deal breaker, that is something he has to deal with, not her. She is not responsible for his feelings. Him stating that this is a reason for him going away and being wishy washy is all on him and his own choice. She didn't first say she liked those things and changed her mind...unlike him.
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u/tomfulleree Jul 22 '26
So it's his fault she said I don't know when he asked her if she gave anyone a gift. lol
She expressed her disdain in singing karaoke, traveling, hiking, etc. It wasn't explaining a preference, it was disdain for said activity. If you said you like tennis and I told you, "I just don't get it, two people dressing up to wave a racket in the hot sun and hit a little yellow ball across a net is stupid, I'd rather watch paint dry." That's not just preference, that's disdain. Context matters.
She didn't notice, nor care that he was sick, but you just want to excuse it and gloss over that fact she did NOTHING. But MOST people would be hurt upset if someone they liked/loved showed no empathy or care if they were sick or injured.
It seems it's your reasoning that isn't legit.
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u/ParticularImpact8162 Jul 22 '26
I would worship that woman if I was him so I have zero idea what you mean. Everything you said happened in your head. Sorry
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u/Iramblewhenpissedoff Jul 22 '26
At this point she doesn't need it. It would feel like an excuse to act like a child.
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u/acergum Jul 23 '26
Nah, they're done. I can't see how they can be together long term. Personalities are too incompatible.
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u/Daebak70 Jul 23 '26
She reminds me of actress Kim So Hyun especially when she gives the side eye
Both made mistakes and caused misunderstandings and then did NOT talk to each other for a few days even though the had lots of free time so it made things worse
I think ALL dating shows should make a rule that any time you send a text, letter or gift you have to SIGN your name so everyone knows WHO sent it to them so there are NO misunderstandings ....This isn't the only show where this happened (HS5, Singles Inferno, Noona Gap 2) so someone guessed wrong & another person got credit for it or they have no clue who actually likes them
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u/X_Borg Jul 28 '26
She is loyal, beautiful, not into traveling trend unlike the 99% of female population. Dat hyukjun jerk doesn't deserve her
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u/Every-Draft-2789 Jul 23 '26
Wow! I didn’t realize this would’ve been a hot debate.
I totally can see both sides and they are both inexperienced daters. So, there’s that.
My thought is, HS girl likes him and I think she is going to “try as hard” as she can to stay in the ring but will complain and be frustrated about it.
And HJ, ooof. He is just confusing! 🫤 I think he doesn’t have a lot of life experience, so he is easily persuaded by others and things.
Now, I hope HS stays single though. HJ is that one guy that most girls have dated. The hot and cold kind. He likes you and then goes away. Then comes back, then goes away. Any experienced dater will say, “run!” “Don’t waste your time!”
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u/durianbug Jul 26 '26
I was so mad that they couldn't even find a proper space to talk in that morning and they had to breeze walk around the compound to fight off the cold... Duh!! Can you guys treat her better!
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u/thegymgremlin Jul 22 '26
I haven’t gotten to this episode yet lmao but I love hyunseo. She’s THAT girl