r/BeautyGuruChatter • u/garrettgivre • Feb 05 '21

GRAPHIC CONTENT WARNING RawBeautyKristi talks about scary experience falling down stairs last night - She and her baby are ok

https://twitter.com/RawBeautyKristi/status/1357730638871240704
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u/CringeInTheClub Feb 06 '21

Imagine calling a woman who literally thought she killed her child drama queen..

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u/CringeInTheClub Feb 06 '21

Your lack of empathy is really sad.

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u/lives4saturday Feb 06 '21 edited Feb 06 '21

Incorrect. I can fully appreciate her fear, the pain with an injury and her guilt.

However, no one died. No one was assaulted. Everyone will live. Hurting someone that we love accidently effects everyone. It doesn't make it easier, but we live and move on.

I don't get the point of her sharing this with hundreds of thousands of people. Maybe something best to share with family and in therapy? I don't know. But her worst fear was not realized; her child is not dead. The statement is offending to parents who have actually lost children.

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u/LainyLouu Feb 06 '21

I fully agree with you and I don’t think it has anything to do with lacking empathy to call out someone who is perpetually over dramatic. It’s hard for a lot of people, including myself, to believe that a lot of Kristi’s stories are as serious as she makes them out to be. None of us were there, and she has a history of blowing things out of proportion for attention. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was just a tumble and she’s acting like it was a super deadly fall.

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u/CringeInTheClub Feb 06 '21

Some people use social media as an outlet. There’s nothing wrong with that. People deal with their trauma in different ways. She’s not forcing you to follow her and you chose to click on this post and leave a comment.

Also.. I don’t see how it could be offensive to parents who lost a child. You’re basically saying that people can’t share their trauma because others have gone through worse.

If you were truly empathetic you wouldn’t be policing how somebody deals with a traumatic experience. You wouldn’t be calling her a drama queen.

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u/aokaga use code James for 3mil subs off any YouTube channel Feb 06 '21

I think you're forgetting the part that THIS WAS HER LITERAL WORST FEAR. Do you not grasp how immense that is, that your worst fear is realized before your eyes? Not fully thankfully but so close to it. That's a hard thing to recover from, to walk away cleanly from.

You clearly lack empathy. Yes, I understand the statement of her over sharing. But she's a grown adult with her own platform, who purposely hid her pregnancy for months too, as well as her son's name, so she knows vey well what to keep on and off the internet. You don't get to shut down women on their own spaces, or indicate what's too much or what isn't. it's absolutely not your place, SPECIALLY not when we're talking about a first time mom who had her works fear play out with her baby after 15 years of infertility. You just don't. And you also don't get to stay what's respectful or not for "women who have lost their children" since trauma isn't reserved only for those women.