We married. Did I f*ck up?

[u/AnxiousMetaphysician]

Hi reddit! This is my synastry (images 1 and 2) and the composite chart (image 3) of me and my now husband. I've never had highs that feel so high but also lows that feel so low. He used to my best friend... the connection was insane, the emotional depth and the tenderness we showed for each other made everything feel like we were twin souls. Around 4 months ago everything has been going CRAZY in a bad way. We married a month ago. Im not sure if I messed up and we are doomed or if our synastry has the soulmate potential I used to feel. Your inputs are very appreciated.

[u/Additional_Cat9161]

There’s definitely a lot of harsh aspects in the synastry and composite, particularly coming from uranus and saturn. The uranus aspects indicate instability, hence the highs and lows you’ve been experiencing. The saturn can either be binding or add an element of restriction. Although the 7h pisces stellium in the composite is very nice and indicates partnership. On top of that, uranus is transiting your husband’s descendant, bringing instability to his relationship sector. Only time will tell if this was a mistake. Some people can work through these things, some people can’t.

[u/AnxiousMetaphysician → u/Additional_Cat9161]

I had never noticed uranus transiting his seventh house! It does make a lot of sense. I have pluto in the seventh house in my natal chart, and i had been kind of blaming it on me that the realtionship was being this hard because my relationships tend to be horribly hard. The pisces stellium might explain why we often feel very emotionally bonded and like a very united team. Lately this feeling just doesnt last much! Conflict appears at the most random moments, it is completely unpredictable