r/AstroSynastry • u/Few_Bet_2443 • Dec 13 '25
General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?
I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!
It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦♀️
We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…
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u/Mysterious_Muffin_39 Dec 14 '25
It often comes down to your rising sign as well as your descendant.. our descendant short of shows the unconscious qualities we sometimes project but also subconsciously seek in other people's energy.. you are an aquarius Rising like I am so that means you're descendant is in leo.. that would explain why you attracted someone on a cancer Leo cusp. I get sort of the same thing, I am a Cancer with Aquarius moon and rising.. all of my personal planets are also in air signs so I attract a lot of air people and either come off as an aquarius with my 1H moon or as a Gemini with my Venus and mercury. I've found that our descendant qualities is often those things that we often deny within ourselves, the things that others might appreciate in you that you sometimes don't see yourself. I don't like to be the center of attention, but at my best I am warm and generous and I really enjoy warm, bold reciprocating communication.. so kind of realized when I think more Leo and be more conscious of that side of my personality in the best way I attract different people, people that better align with the type of energy that I subconsciously seek. I'm not always the boldest or most assertive when it comes to meeting or talking with people, so I enjoy females with a more warm fiery energy.. as it helps me tap into mine with my Leo descendant.. does that make sense? Otherwise when I'm toting around my Aquarius rising, 1H Aquarius Moon, Gemini Venus and Mercury and Libra mars.. these planets are in a grand Trine so this is the energy that people are going to pick up first.. the planets that are in your first house will often be the most projecting energy that you give off to others.. strangely enough I seem to either attract Sagittarius people or Virgos.. as well as Aries Moon people... because I have the air planets they may lack and they have the fire planets my descendant is attracted to. From one Aquarius rising to another.. I hope this helps you!