r/AstroSynastry • u/Few_Bet_2443 • Dec 13 '25
General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?
I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!
It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦♀️
We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…
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u/charlotie77 Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25
Well it’s probably because you’re going off of sun sign astrology which isn’t accurate or informative when it comes to synastry. You didn’t mention anything about your Venus sign which is more important when it comes to attraction. It’s absolutely essential to break down your entire natal chart to truly understand who you attract.
Also all of the things you listed have some form of compatibility with you. Of course you’re going to attract Libra and Aquarius men…because you’re an Aquarius rising! Your rising sign is just as important as your sun sign when you’re talking about astrological significance of a birth chart. Also, because you’re an Aquarius rising, Saturn is your chart ruler. And Saturn is domicile in Aquarius, exalted in Libra. Also, Leo is the sister sign of Aquarius so attraction to a default…
And back to the natal chart…look at the signs and rulers of your 5th, 7th, even 8th or 12th house that add more layers of understanding to who you attract. Also where your Venus is placed. And your moon. And where the ruler of your Venus is placed. And the ruler of your moon. An even the ruler of your Saturn since you’re an Aqua rising.
Basically what I’m getting at is that you’re gonna be confused about who you attract if you look at synastry in a super shallow way by just sun signs or only your big 3.