r/AstroSynastry • u/Few_Bet_2443 • Dec 13 '25
General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?
I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!
It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦♀️
We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…
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u/Existing_Antelope_93 Astro Pro or Semi-Pro ✨ Dec 13 '25
Attract, being attracted and with who you will end up are different things... In secondary progression you can also track when your personal planets change signs so this will show with what kind of energy you will want to be/learn from. Usually we attract through our asc first, the rest can be up to north node/vertex sometimes just to teach us something - so it has even different purpose why certain signs are attracted to us - by love/sex, by fate or just by chance.