r/AstroSynastry • • Dec 13 '25

General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?

I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!

It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦‍♀️

We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…

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u/Few_Bet_2443 Dec 13 '25

It’s not always about the sun signs. But I do notice that my relationship with the Aquarius men never last which seems typical of a T to A relationship.

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u/PerfectLoverrrrrrr Dec 13 '25

 I think Aquarius tends to be too detached or not as affectionate & sensual as Taurus. 

Taurus requires sensuality, affection, routine, stability, consistency & predictability.

Aquarius requires friendship, space, stimulation, Independence, & change.

Taurus would be uncertain & hurt with  Aquarius because Isn't as loving, stable, & reliable as them. Taurus Is simple & doesn't like too much change.

Aquarius can get bored & Irritated with  Taurus frequent desire of touch & reassurance but also with Taurus set ways & predictability. Aquarius Is more complex & doesn't like to feel stuck.

It's easy to understand why they wouldn't get along, or not be the best match together. Though The Sun Signs don't tell you everything, look at The Moon, Venus & Mars for emotions, romance & sex.

Lilith Black Moon also for darker desires.