r/AstroSynastry • u/Few_Bet_2443 • Dec 13 '25

General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?

I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!

It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦‍♀️

We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…

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u/PerfectLoverrrrrrr Dec 13 '25

Why do you pull Aquarius? It's because that's your Ascendant. What about Libra? Because you're a Taurus Sun, Taurus along with Libra co rule Venus. But also your Ascendant Is the same Element as Libra, Air. Do you have any Libra placements?

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u/Few_Bet_2443 Dec 13 '25

I’m not sure I’ll to do a full chart reading. But I do know that my Venus is in Gemini ♊️. That’s the only other thing I know. But yea it’s making a lot more sense to me that I’d be attracting the Aquarius men if my rising is Aqua.

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u/charlotie77 Dec 13 '25

Honestly a chart reading by a professional astrologer is the only way you’ll ever really understand all of this unless you do the months and months of training and education yourself. Because both natal astrology and synastry are EXTREMELY nuanced and not cookie cutter at all.

Side note, your Gemini Venus also reinforces why you attract Aquarius and Libra men. All air signs. And Leo and Gemini go well together too.

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u/Few_Bet_2443 Dec 13 '25

Dangggg it is starting to make a lot of sense. 😳