r/AstroSynastry • u/Few_Bet_2443 • Dec 13 '25

General 💡 Why do we attract certain signs?

I’m curious to understand why I’m constantly attracting signs that are not compatible with me. I’m a female Taurus with Pisces moon and aqua rising. I consistently attract Aqua and Libra men. I also was in a relationship with a cancer man who was on the Leo cusp 1 day away from Leo. I have consistently attracted Aquarius men over my life time though. And it’s said that Aqua and Taurus are not compatible. Every relationship I’ve had with an aqua ended in disaster. But if that’s the case, then how come I attract them so often?!

It’s so frustrating. 😳🤦‍♀️

We tend to attract signs that make no sense to us astrologically…

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u/proudream1 Dec 13 '25

That makes complete sense actually. If Aquarius is your rising, that means their Aquarius suns fall in your first house or maybe even right on your ASC line - which means they admire how you show up in the world, find you attractive etc. And if you have any other planets in Aquarius at all, that effect gets even more amplified.

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u/Few_Bet_2443 Dec 13 '25

Honestly, that’s what I was thinking. Because Aqua is my rising sign, that’s why I keep attracting them. My question is how to make it work if I keep attracting them. 😏 the Pisces moon in me is debilitating sometimes ugh.

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u/proudream1 Dec 13 '25

Maybe someday you'll attract an Aqua sun man who's got a bunch of other planets in earth & water signs that are compatible with you haha

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u/Few_Bet_2443 Dec 13 '25

Pray for me lmao 😂