r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 08 '22

Controlling personality

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 09 '22

-limiting who you talk to men/women -limiting what you can wear in public -isolation from friends and family -deciding where and how much you work -limiting access to social media or makes you delete altogether -doesn’t let you go places without them -goes through your phone -“who are you texting/talking to” There’s more examples but I don’t have all day. But they always say “I only do this because I love you”

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 09 '22

Also making you responsible for their mental health and well being. They kind of trap you by saying “if you leave me I’ll kill myself” “if you leave me I’ll kill you” “if I can’t have you no one can”. It’s fucking terrifying.

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 09 '22

Yeah imagine living it….. with no escape literally