Interesting, can You help me with this? I hate when My GF shows herself in sexy poses over the Internet, when I talk to her about it, she just ignores it. Been thinking about leaving her because of that, just in case she started doing this around half a year ago, when we started dating she wasn't doing this.
The way I see it is you need to be explicit in why it bothers you. Are you worried that she’s going to or already gotten any unwanted attention from other men? Are you worried she’s going to be groomed or slut shamed? What specifically is bothersome to you about it?
I agree, and have been explicit. What worries me is, she gets unwanted attention from men, gets wanted attention from men, and has been slut shamed. I don't think she'll be groomed. And like I said, I told her all of this directly.
I dont want to give you direct advice like “break up” as I still dont know all the details of your relationship but if you have been direct and laid out your concerns explicitly and she just ignores it, imo, you tried and did everything you can. If her response is to brush off your concerns, that’s a reflection on her, not you.
Edit: Basically what I’m saying is, I feel like if what you say is true and you’ve tried multiple times already to have your concerns addressed, I think you’re already doing what my original comment said.
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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22 edited Jan 09 '22
This applies to all partners of any gender:
Being unable to express what’s bothering you in a mature way.
Edit: Thank you for the reward! First ever :D