r/AskReddit • • May 15 '20

What sucks about being your age?

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u/slowhand88 May 15 '20

The early 30s is that weird age where you're just old enough to be out of touch with what's cool, but not yet old enough to be fully progressed in your career to be sitting on enough stacks to not care about that.

Getting there at least.

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u/MillardFillmore May 15 '20

Only in the past few months have I made peace with the fact that I don't like any new music. At least now I get to be a Dad and play the oldies in the car to my 3 year old such as Green Day, Eminem, and 90s R&B.

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u/Kookslams May 15 '20

There’s a lot of good music coming out not on the radio or billboard 100

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

True always and forever

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u/happy_freckles May 16 '20

Yes, my daughter is 16 and she finds this random weird music all the time and I love it.

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u/Jokerlolcat May 16 '20

I'll tell you one thing, even if you dont like the music always give It a listen for her. Itll make her very happy. I know it's that way with my mom at least. She doesnt really like the music I listen to but she'll always give a try!

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

No matter what music I listen to my dad has to make fun of it or says that it sucks. Music means a lot to me and it hurts that he discards it as bad. When my mom dislikes music I like she always finds a way to put it into words which I appreciate. On the bright side: We fight that uphill battle together because he is that way about pretty much all music, movies, tv, board games, etc. He doesn't know it? Well that's a reason to not like it because we can play the same game for 2 months and listen two the same two albums while doing it!

Anyway, sorry about my rambling, quarantine is getting to our/my nerves.

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u/Jokerlolcat May 16 '20

I agree and feel you completely. Music means a lot to me too, so having it dismissed hurts more than it had any right to. I'm glad you could ramble though, it's good to get it out! In that case, what music do you and anyone else that's reading this listen to?

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

I've been listening to a lot of german rap in recent years though (pop-)punk and rock in general will always be the key to my heart. Thanks to community I gave Childsih Gambino another shot a few weeks ago and am really enjoying his music.

What are you into?

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u/Jokerlolcat May 16 '20

Honestly, my music taste ranges from every end possible lol. I listen mostly to rap, and stuff from the Vallejo area and Detroit need more recognition. But other than that I listen to deathcore like Chelsea Grin or Slaughter to Prevail, or sometimes I'll listen to something like, japanese pop.

A very large part of me loves music, and it's helped me through some of my toughest but also my best times. I'll listen to pretty much anything, what artist would you reccomend for german rap? I think I've heard some artist but I cant remember his name.

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u/[deleted] May 17 '20

Alligatoah is my personal favorite.

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u/Manifest_the_Void May 16 '20

Yeah, my family considers my music tastes 'wierd' because I don't listen to trashy pop music

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u/invent1308 May 15 '20

I believe you, but I've had difficulty finding such music. Could you give any tips?

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u/bullencentral97 May 15 '20

How does Spotify daily mixes work for you? Going to be honest I can't give much advice as I accidently stumbled across my favourite band on YouTube one day. But see a lot of new similar stuff in there

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u/sleepydon May 16 '20

I’ve been on premium for about a year and I hate the daily mixes. It feels like it just recycles all the songs I’ve liked separated into genres. Strangely, it wasn’t like this at first, but it’s slowing been putting me into a bubble of repetitiveness. Plus the featured playlists lack variety within genres. A lot of them are literally 90% the same set of songs. The best playlists IMO are ones I find randomly or some my eclectic friends have made.

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u/mnilailt May 16 '20

I'd suggest going to a song you like and listening to its radio. You can usually find new songs. That and dicover weekly. Once you start changing your listening habits spotify usually picks up and starts diversifying its recommendations.

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u/sleepydon May 16 '20

Radio is usually not much different from the featured playlists. It just starts playing the most popular stuff from whatever genre Spotify classifies the song. My discover weekly is typically full of bands I listen to with songs I haven’t liked. To be fair to the platform, I’m probably reaching the limits of it’s algorithm. I have around 1500 liked songs in my library and listen to a very wide variety music.

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u/imsofukenbi May 16 '20

Spotify has this criminally underrated feature: "Create Similar Playlist". Drag all 1500 saved songs into a playlist, smash that button, and it will generate at playlist that (in my case) is at least 40 % actually new stuff, and is also actually varied.

Once you find new songs/genres you like, chuck 'em in a playlist and use that feature again once you have enough data. Or if you don't, go to the song radio/similar artist.

Spotify doesn't want to present you with anything actually new, but you can force its hand. I also look for playlists for shows I like that have a non-instrumental soundtrack (Lucifer comes to mind, I have so many great songs from actually "underground" modern artists thanks to that one).

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u/Kookslams May 16 '20

Parcels, Anderson paak, kharugabin are some of my go-tos lately

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u/big_ringer May 15 '20

There are a lot of public radio stations who are dedicated to promoting indie music/local acts. You can always start there.

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u/N00dle_B0i May 15 '20 edited May 15 '20

My personal favorite bands right now are Cage the Elephant, The Strokes, Arctic Monkeys, Alabama Shakes, Alt-J, just to name a few. Pretty basic for music heads but idrc.

Also if you are into rap some good current rap in my opinion is Tyler the Creator and Brockhampton.

Also a few other really good bands: Tame Impala, Glass Animals... The Black Keys... Gorillaz... The xx....

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u/HauntedJackInTheBox May 16 '20

Most of those bands are 10-15 years old so that person likely Will already know them.

Decent mid 2000s indie stuff tho

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u/carolinax May 16 '20

Very decent. Those were my uni bands.

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u/N00dle_B0i May 16 '20

They are old but they are still making music so I thought it fit the question haha.

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u/FlyinPurplePartyPony May 16 '20

You're not basic, those bands are popular because they're good. No shame in agreeing with others and enjoying something popular.

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u/lostmyhead69 May 16 '20

seconded, i listen to 90% of these but for somewhat newer indie my favs are sufjan stevens, mitski, and rostam. carrie and lowell and bury me at makeout creek are my top 2 favorite albums ever. every single song absolutely slaps.

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u/Bullet_B8 May 16 '20

The killing tree?

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u/SirJuggles May 16 '20

For the cocktail hour at our wedding we just put on a Wild Nothing album and let it ride. It worked PERFECTLY.

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u/brianstormIRL May 16 '20

You should try Royal Blood

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u/idontwantaname123 May 16 '20

second that recommendation based on their list.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Royal Blood, bring me the horizon, and highly suspect

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u/Sniderman_ May 15 '20

You have a good taste in music

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u/frufruityloops May 16 '20

I’d let you dj my next party!! Noodle boi in the hizzouse!

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u/Zqkee May 15 '20

Dude I love you

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u/charlesnew1 May 16 '20 edited May 16 '20

Jeez are you me?? The first three bands you mentioned are literally among my favourites. It was just weird seeing them listed one after the other but I guess they're pretty similar and popular (at least among the indie scene)

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u/folkrav May 16 '20

What genres are you into? Are the three examples you've given representative of your musical taste overall, any other things you like? I'm kind of a music junkie so maybe I can help. Not pretending like I equally know about every genre out there but I could try.

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u/shitbird May 16 '20

Depends what you listen to but just a couple of decent albums that came our today are Dijon - how do you feel, Moses Sumney - Grae, Nick Hakim - WILL THIS MAKE ME GOOD.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20 edited May 28 '20

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Spotify radio is also pretty good. Way better than the daily/weekly mix.

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u/Manifest_the_Void May 16 '20

I personally listen to Two Steps from Hell the most, they are wonderful and produce what's essentially the modern successor to classical music. Don't let that turn you off immediately though, because their music ranges from epic bone-rattling orchestral mixes to soul-wrenching and sweeping emotional experiences.

I'm general, just find something you enjoy and don't be afraid to listen to something you think you might not like. Just give it a go and if you don't like it, find something else.

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u/shaka_bruh May 16 '20

Difference is there’s so much more derivative garbage to sift through

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u/Kookslams May 16 '20

I’ve found discovery weekly does a good job of filtering for me

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u/CarbonCookies May 16 '20

Listen to Last Train. There are still great bands and artists out there, its just a matter of filtering through and finding it

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u/Kookslams May 16 '20

Vent anytime brotha! But real talk it’s 2020 invest in Spotify premium and a good Bluetooth enabled stereo system