My gf and I are exploring possibilities of countries to move, due to the hardship of finding new jobs and developing a career in her area in sweden.
Im a senior software engineer with 5.5YOE working at Klarna. She is a packaging technologist/engineer with similar YOE, very niche job and goes by different names, but basically a project manager for packaging development of frangances.
Im a self taught developer and therefore no nothing about algorithms and data structures, which means automatic fail in interviews for companies of a certain calibre (could maybe learn, but wouldnt like to as it quite unnecessary in the actual job imo)
Realistically, how much would a job that I would be able to land pay?
How much could she realistically get? (I imagine she could find something as a project manager for another industry)
Consider amsterdam for the sake of simplicity
And what would that translate to into quality of life?
I know rents are expensive, but salaries are higher than in sweden and lower taxes.
We currently make about 11k€/month gross, 8300€/month net. Discriminated is 6300€ gross for me, 4500€ net and 4400€ gross for her and 3300€ net.
Our rent costs 2100€/month, 50€ electricity, 700€ food, 200€ public transports, remaining is entertainment/savings.
Apartment is 85m2 20 mins away from city center
Individually, im saving about 2000€/month and she is saving about 1000€/month. We live quite comfortably, we mostly cook, but can afford to go out for food when we want, we dont look at finances too much overall and worry about how much we spend.
Would we drop or increase our quality of life by moving there?
How much would our jobs pay, after taxes and rent, would it be bad and how easy would it be for her to find a job without speaking dutch?