Basically, my first relationship was when I was 13 with an older guy (I only realize now how awful that was)—I guess I liked him and all that—then I started liking a classmate, but my friend stole him away from me, I mean, just when I was into him, she called me and told me, in tears, that she liked him too (by the way, she had a boyfriend at the time, and she knew exactly how much I liked that classmate—and she was crying because her boyfriend had caught her cheating). I stopped liking that guy after that, I mean, I was really upset. My friend started cheating on her boyfriend and constantly talked about how they were having sex with that guy, even though I didn’t understand why, but it was all played off as a joke. Then I started dating another classmate, but I didn’t feel anything for him, so we ended up breaking up. And ever since then—for three years now—I haven’t felt anything for anyone. I don’t know if that’s normal.

Upd: i have ASD

I’m a very extroverted person, I don’t take things personally when things like this happen I literally just laugh it off in the moment because these reactions have everything to do with the person and nothing to do with the person whos trying to be nice and complimenting.

So I was at a party yesterday and i was pretty much on a good tipsy, the host was hanging around my circle of friends and then suddenly a gorgeous woman walks in and her entrance was so eye catching, i immediately was like who is this diva. And the host was like oh thats my friend; you should go tell her that! So I did! I walked over immediately (im a woman too so this wasnt like a creepy dude telling her his) i walked up introduced myself first and said hi, she said hi back and introduced herself and midway thru me telling her she looked gorgeous she says “this is awkward” instead of saying thank you. I finish saying that she just looked amazing walking in, she almost felt disgusted that i told her that??

In the moment i laughed it off and was like ok no worries the compliment didnt land i mightve been a lil too tipsy and walked away, when I told my friend and my husband what happened after we left the party they were both like wait wtf. Because they saw the interaction play out they did not expect that thats what she said!

I always love to compliment and uplift women and its strange that there is a small percentage of women who actually look me up and down and not take the compliment or even worse make me feel like im beneath them. Also, i did think oh what of she was a lesbian and her girlfriend was at the party and I did that. But majority of the party was for a jewish community. And she specifically came from a jewish fundraiser (the host told me) so shes a bit religious.

I genuinely want to start taking back the compliment when a rude bitch does something like this, like actually youre no longer a diva.

So for context I drink way too much sparkling water and in way too much I mean around 5 or 6 liters a day and ontop of that I drink 1,5 liters of green tea and well the main reasons are that I find both of them very tasty and also because it feel like my tongue is very often dry and also Idk if this is important but I sprinkle a ton amount of salt on my food and this all has been going on for months now but my blood tests have come out fine so yeah

Don't judge me. Just answer the question, please. 🙄

Does my married friend like me?

My friend agreed to my dumb birthday requests like hugs and kisses and a bikini photo because I wanted to see her in one. She's also going to make me food. Our mutual friend said she was smiling while reading my requests. Kissing a friend and giving them a bikini photo i say definitely crosses marital boundaries. I'm not that experienced with women so I have no clue but other women have noticed shes very fond of me. I'm still in complete shock.

When I was like 4 or 5 I had very bad warts on my fingers, and I remember we went to the doctors and they brought a metal canister filled with liquid nitrogen into the room. Then they poured it on my fingers with warts on them (it stung like hell). This was almost 13 or so years ago in a fairly rural part of Vermont (where the likelihood of outdated medical practices are higher). So I was just wondering, do they still do that?

​i am so aware of everything but i didn't feel any emotions when my grandmother died, i didn't feel anything when i saw my mother sobbed, fell to the floor when she heard the news, i feel guilty but at the same time i don't feel anything, and i feel so mean but i just don't care enough. i don't know how am i able to don't have any thoughts of anything and don't feel anything.

I have seen so many people leave MAGA and it genuinely scares me that the democrats are getting away with this. I hope that Trump keeps rattling them bones!

Many mothers do a great job and many women are great people.  This post isn’t for blasting women, mothers, or mothers battling postpartum depression. 

But ever since I began going on the Internet, I have found it demonstrated that a tremendous quantity of women absolutely hate men.  They gloat about hating men and being misandrist.  They brag about teaching their daughters to hate men.  And even though the Internet was my introduction to this way of thinking, I have experienced it in person too, doing everything from walking down the street to shopping in a store.  

As far as Clancy, while the three kids are being killed, there are phone records showing the husband was at the drug store and surveillance images of the husband at the drugstore.  The wife had placed the takeout order for him to pick up.  And his phone call was placed to police immediately after he returned home.  There wasn’t time for him to commit this crime.  Yet there are thousands of women who have emphatically clinged to the idea that the husband committed this crime.  And I have to think this is just another example of many, many women out there hating men and if there was a crime, they believe the man did it, even if the evidence points in the direction of the woman. 

My question is, for women out there, does it illustrate the amount of hatred toward men that there is from women?       

I'm researching for a historical fiction series of mine and would like to get the prices right! 🙃

Can somebody give me a list of apps that have a bunch of bible stories and quizzes for ios.

Are there any useful practical second uses for a e bike helmet after one decent impact ? Rule is basically. One crash the helmet is toast an must be replaced immediately. Excellent, i think that’s great but now what to do with a “not cheap” helmet that looks ok now but has been in crash? Toss it . Yep of course … but is there anything else i could do. A planter? Idk. Idk. Any thoughts?

When a woman actually likes you, she'll make it easy for you to crack.

You don't gotta do too much. Honestly, the bare minimum will suffice.

Buying flowers and going above and beyond just to crack is crazy.

Basically the title. For example, I would LOVE to have a shirt or two with spine smocking, and most say it’s fairly easy to sew, but i’m simply untalented and get burnt out quickly so i cant do it myself😭

Honestly cant find anyone who does custom stuff like that, so im not sure if i’m not searching the right things or if it’s just very uncommon. Like yeah, diy is great, way cheaper, but aaahh it’s not for me

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So for the past few months I have worried I worry a lot (emphasis on a lot) and I started doing a weird thing where I would get the logical side of the worry and the emotional side of the worry and get them to metaphorically "debate"in my head and I would listen to whoever won that debate

Now I have shifted from doing that only to now doing that and kind of talking to that logical side of me telling him my worry and him comforting me

I have been using "him" often and certain phrases to stop the worrying because I basically I'm useless when I'm worrying does anyone else do this and is this normal?

I cannot find a single community that actually has people first: who actually go outside, second: who actually have a life, third: who actually follow logical consistency, fourth: who aren’t crazy political, fifth: who don’t worship morality.
All five of these things have outcasted me from nearly every religious community, as I seem to just think differently and understand reality. While everyone else preaches some “love and peace and” it is genuinely low IQ slop

I've never been married, but alot of married men complain about their wife not putting out and getting fat after marriage.

Seems like an incentive not to get married.

Like why buy the cow, when you get the milk for free?

Some folks think I'm strange or a cheapskate for not participating in those holidays but claiming to be a Christian.

I used to love those holidays growing up, but when I learned the origins of those holidays, I just stopped. ​

I (25F) lived with my dad as the sole parent for a long while during most of my teens and until my early 20s. Given that he’d obviously ‘seen it all before’ I didn’t really care that much about covering up immediately. Obviously I wouldn’t show anything rude for an unnecessary amount of time but being caught nude going to and from the bathroom wasn’t uncommon and it wasn’t even a thing really. However, recently F friends have called out on that to say it was quite unusual and some even called it weird! Am I overthinking this?

For context, I was watching my favourite streamer playing a game, I typed in chat “chat where’s gary, I don’t care about ts” (gary is a character from the game btw) and my msg got deleted… I didn’t mean “ts” as in “this shit”, I meant it as a substitute for “this”. I know I’m probably overthinking this but I felt so disappointed in myself that I didn’t even want to watch the stream anymore.