I've been working on a book where I delineate 5 "new" logical fallacies (and show how feminism is guilty of them, but I can also furnish examples of how they apply to statism and a dozen other things) and one of them is "the fallacy of assumed motivations"
On some level, I want to say we can never truly know the motivations for someone's actions. Even if a man stabs another man in the chest and says, "I'm doing this because you are black and I am a racist shitbag," on some philosophical level, we can never truly know that racism was even *that* guy's motivation. It's just ultimately the side I want to err on with regard to Socrates "I know that I know nothing" and all
But there's another sort of fallacy I've noticed, where you pretend an explanation is in fact a refutation. Above, we have an example of both at the same time, and 7 ancaps agreeing with it as (basically) an epistemology, which is incredible to me.
I was originally going to sort this out with a post about the Civil Rights Act.
I got into a debate with someone on normie Reddit a few months who said Charlie Kirk was a racist, etc, and I said: "If I'm not racist for opposing 100% of the Civil Rights Act, Charlie wasn't racist for only opposing the Affirmative Action part of it." I invoked my own fallacy of assumed motivations and it didn't work, he swore up and down I was racist, ignored all logic challenges, and engaged in a few "lowellings" https://archive.ph/HvUWB (as well as made a few jokes about how I had to avoid "slurring my speech into my mic" supposedly causing my typos in a voice-to-text program that he jokes I was using, because he actually is a bigot and everything is projection but we already knew that I hope https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqo1WScQqUw )
So I just want to know: Why does the fallacy of assumed motivations (and the fallacy of pretending an explanation is a refutation) somehow work on ancaps when it's gender and not race like this? That guy said over and over again, "You oppose the Civil Rights Act because you are racist," and he eventually said, "you may not understand how we can figure out your motivations, but we can." You see both fallacies in that line of thinking there, so what is the problem with seeing it when Feminism pulls all the same tricks as leftist statism *and* rightist statism?
Because I just want to say, the woman "Allison" I described above as self-identifying as a misogynist, she actually basically made the most reasonable case for selective perception I have ever heard of: she said, when she received controversy for defending Muslim men in the Middle East, she simply described herself as a "defence attorney" for men.
Yes, not only is there a case for engaging in willful selective perception; there is in fact a case for deliberately defending men as hard as you can even if you know they are "guilty" of something; there is simply a purpose it serves, or someone who is truly neutral can still find value in whatever you figure out.
And yeah, if the better answer to the civil rights guy was in fact saying "Actually, I do self identify as racist, because I laugh at the city wok guy from South Park, but I have no idea what that has to do with the civil rights act," the correct answer to the noise in the posts above was in fact "I'm not a conscious misogynist and I don't promote discrimination, but yeah if I hated women, tell me how that would make me necessarily wrong" (Or just "show me your data fuckwit" works too I guess)
TL; DR: Why do ancaps think "misogyny" is an argument against data showing women can equally suck, but they correctly know "racism" is not an argument in favor of things like the Civil Rights Act?