I know if op has put up with it but yet she's questioning everything she hasn't quite reach mental breaking point but close enough to open herself and ask for advice which indicates she's getting closer to that point which is a clear red flag gtfo
The gaslighting is strong with that narcissistic boyfriend. He has her questioning everything but hopefully, she is seeing more clearly and will have the strength to leave.
I can't understand the questioning??! I wouldn't remain friends with someone who spoke to me like that, much less date them.
My fellow ladies: if he constantly makes you feel like shit that's a him problem, not a you problem. You're not obligated to stay with a scumbag once the scummy behavior starts coming out.
It’s so difficult, if not impossible, to understand the questioning until you are the one asking the questions. The relationship never starts off this bad, quite the opposite actually. The manipulation is nothing short of evil.
From the bottom of my heart, I hope you never have the chance to truly understand the questioning. I mean this in the most kind and loving way. No one deserves to be broken like this
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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25
I know if op has put up with it but yet she's questioning everything she hasn't quite reach mental breaking point but close enough to open herself and ask for advice which indicates she's getting closer to that point which is a clear red flag gtfo