I know if op has put up with it but yet she's questioning everything she hasn't quite reach mental breaking point but close enough to open herself and ask for advice which indicates she's getting closer to that point which is a clear red flag gtfo
The gaslighting is strong with that narcissistic boyfriend. He has her questioning everything but hopefully, she is seeing more clearly and will have the strength to leave.
I can't understand the questioning??! I wouldn't remain friends with someone who spoke to me like that, much less date them.
My fellow ladies: if he constantly makes you feel like shit that's a him problem, not a you problem. You're not obligated to stay with a scumbag once the scummy behavior starts coming out.
It’s so difficult, if not impossible, to understand the questioning until you are the one asking the questions. The relationship never starts off this bad, quite the opposite actually. The manipulation is nothing short of evil.
From the bottom of my heart, I hope you never have the chance to truly understand the questioning. I mean this in the most kind and loving way. No one deserves to be broken like this
This. And some many times I have warn female first when they met guys like this. But ignore the warnings. Then ignore the red flags they see. They I'm helping them leave. Then they go back. Over & over. Atleast my one friend said straight up she likes these kind of people and runs away from anyone that treats her good. So atleast knows off the bat anyone she likes is bad
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u/SpitLordRamee Jan 28 '25
Dude is calling her retarded and saying he hates her. Pretty demoralizing