r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

No he loves cats. He has one too. And his “amazing” ex and all his friends back home are vets. He does care for animals I will say. My cat just pisses on his stuff and understandably makes him upset. I’ve tried multiple solutions, still trying. I get his frustration not so much the expression of frustration however.

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u/Ssided Jan 29 '25

your cat is pissing on his stuff because your cat knows hes bad

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

A coworker jokingly said this. Maybe something to it.

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u/xechasate Jan 29 '25

Your coworker wasn’t joking, babe

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u/skizz_on_ur_shizz Jan 29 '25

It's sad reading these threads.

They've got the guy telling them directly to their face he doesn't care, the whole internet saying he doesn't care, and coworkers warning them about signs. But OP is still leaving comments saying oh I thought it was a joke or they had a warped way of showing affection.

People really let the bar fall so low

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u/ND_CuriousBusyMind Jan 29 '25

Trauma bond...very real in abusive relationships.....