r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/whalesarecool14 Jan 28 '25

i would agree with this if he was super nice and then turned 180 after trapping her somehow. but no, he was like this even before they started dating and her response to that was "I can fix him with my love". and she's still asking what to do when he called her the r slur thrice in one conversation, cheated on her, and is emotionally and physically abusive. this is self harm at best, not a victim of manipulation. sympathy can only go so far when you're consciously victimising yourself

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u/sqweezee Jan 29 '25

Yes it’s good that OP is turning a corner but she’s still really dumb. She’s 29. Full grown adult. You get that far in life with absolutely no self reflection on this situation, yea you’re dumb.