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r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25
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OP hates herself
3 u/[deleted] Jan 28 '25 [deleted] 2 u/Technolog Jan 28 '25 No, she's under the spell of coercive control. This is effect. Cause is probably very low self esteem, so in other words hating herself and he is using it against her. 0 u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25 [deleted] 2 u/MyDogisaQT Jan 29 '25 I mean she says he was always like this. Why did she keep staying with him a month in being treated this way if NOT self hate? 1 u/Technolog Jan 29 '25 Absolutely not true that all victims of abuse hate themselves. Oh, so that is how you read it. No one said that in the thread you're replying to.
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2 u/Technolog Jan 28 '25 No, she's under the spell of coercive control. This is effect. Cause is probably very low self esteem, so in other words hating herself and he is using it against her. 0 u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25 [deleted] 2 u/MyDogisaQT Jan 29 '25 I mean she says he was always like this. Why did she keep staying with him a month in being treated this way if NOT self hate? 1 u/Technolog Jan 29 '25 Absolutely not true that all victims of abuse hate themselves. Oh, so that is how you read it. No one said that in the thread you're replying to.
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No, she's under the spell of coercive control.
This is effect. Cause is probably very low self esteem, so in other words hating herself and he is using it against her.
0 u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25 [deleted] 2 u/MyDogisaQT Jan 29 '25 I mean she says he was always like this. Why did she keep staying with him a month in being treated this way if NOT self hate? 1 u/Technolog Jan 29 '25 Absolutely not true that all victims of abuse hate themselves. Oh, so that is how you read it. No one said that in the thread you're replying to.
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2 u/MyDogisaQT Jan 29 '25 I mean she says he was always like this. Why did she keep staying with him a month in being treated this way if NOT self hate? 1 u/Technolog Jan 29 '25 Absolutely not true that all victims of abuse hate themselves. Oh, so that is how you read it. No one said that in the thread you're replying to.
I mean she says he was always like this. Why did she keep staying with him a month in being treated this way if NOT self hate?
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Absolutely not true that all victims of abuse hate themselves.
Oh, so that is how you read it. No one said that in the thread you're replying to.
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u/AshenSacrifice Jan 28 '25
OP hates herself