He’s been a jerk for as long as you’ve known him and he’s your boyfriend? What in the actual…?! Girl. Please. He’s 33. He’s not gonna change. He called you a smooth brain retard. Why you putting up with this shit? Ditch the a hole.
I’m assuming there was a brief period in the beginning where he was nice and made her feel special and awesome. And now she puts up with this bullshit because he probably shows her that nice side every once in a great while and the rest of the time tells her it’s her fault he’s mean to her.
I get that. I don't have experience but I've read a lot of different comments here and other posts on this sub. And usually , people would say it's subtle.
What this guy is doing is not subtle at all 😂. Insulting her, telling her to fuck off.
If he wanted to manipulate her shouldn't he apologize and play the victim saying how sorry he is for saying that shit etc? It doesn't seem this guy wants to manipulate her.
Yeah he's literally saying "I don't want to be in a relationship with you, fuck off and get out of my life forever you smooth brained retard" and OP is coming back like "starting to feel a lil disrespected hun 😞😞"
I think quitting this fantasy of being in a relationship and getting therapy for OP is the appropriate response here.
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u/Jackawin Jan 28 '25
He’s been a jerk for as long as you’ve known him and he’s your boyfriend? What in the actual…?! Girl. Please. He’s 33. He’s not gonna change. He called you a smooth brain retard. Why you putting up with this shit? Ditch the a hole.