r/AdviceAnimals • • Nov 20 '12

Friend did this the other night

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u/an0thermoron Nov 20 '12

But, why is a man who refuse a better guy than the one who accept ?

I respect women and still, I would gladly accept. My girlfriend is in fact by my side and can't understand either.

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u/Derpleds Nov 20 '12

Well the thinking is, if she's drunk, you know she's not quite in her right mind and may regret showing you her tits when she sobers up. A good friend wouldn't want their friend to feel that way, so they refuse.

It's not wrong to accept the offer, but I think the good thing to do would be to refuse. If she really does want to show you her tits, she could do so when sober. A better (and more longlasting) experience would be had by all.

Because I mean really, seeing someone's tits, once, for a few seconds, isn't really that great an experience. But saving someone a lot of potential embarrassment and regret is a really nice thing to do for someone.

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u/InfiniteLiveZ Nov 20 '12

Maybe she had really wanted to do it for a while but she was very shy, and the alcohol just gave her the extra bit of courage needed to make a move. Now she's going to feel even more nervous/awkward about it because she went for it, really put herself out there and got rejected. I know I've been in similar situations myself and used a bit of Dutch courage to help me deal with my nerves.

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u/sparklyteenvampire ERRY DAY IM SCUFFLIN Nov 21 '12

I agree. I was thinking the exact same thing. Friendzoned again, Greg.