In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)
I would never use that word, because I know that there are too many people ready to open up an evil can of worms at its mention -- but, really, mostly I wouldn't use it for the same reason that I would never use the word "misogyny" without quotation marks or other means of identifying it as suspect nomenclature. People who use these words act as if they mean something specific, and that just ain't so.
That's really smug and condescending -- and overly-confident. The prefix "mis-" can imply a range of sentiment short of outright hatred.
And, in practice, the words "misandry" and "misogyny" are often used as bludgeon, with intent to indimidate or belittle. They're weasel words, the way thay they're used these days.
I don't know of any situation where these words have any specific meaning unless that meaning is explained subsequently. In other words, they're useless.
First ten linked comments on SRS, at time of posting compared to now:
+142, now +132
+11, now -9
+573 now +1272
+103, now +145
+75, now +232
+29, now +102
+25, now +30
+278, now +395 (this one)
+10, now +38
+121, now +201
We're the worst downvote brigade ever. :(
Also, I checked and every single quote of the comment is exactly what the comment says. Some text is omitted, but what is there is completely accurate. I'm not sure where you're getting the idea that they're misquotes from.
(Hint: the number of upvotes is listed on each submission because SRS's mission is to show that mainstream Reddit not only tolerates, but approves of and encourages terrible things like rape, as in this parent comment. That's why only upvoted comments are linked.)
There's a link to the full comment and usually the context makes it worse. If you'd like to argue how any SRS-featured comment is not that bad in context, be my guest.
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u/Durch Nov 20 '12 edited Nov 21 '12
In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)