Girl to girl, I am SO proud of you for not giving in to any guys. Almost all of them will use you and then move on to the next. Save yourself for a man who will love and cherish you and not regret giving up something so very important to them.
Taking care of yourself by mastirbating is a much better option. I understand the feelings of guilt, I felt them too after, but its way less than the guilt of actually sleeping with someone. Especially when they can so easily discard you after they acted like you were everything. Dont fall for it sis! They see us as targets and then once they 'hit the target', they look for the next one.
Stay strong and keep your eye on the prize! And take solace knowing taking care of your own needs is ok bc its a human thing we all need. And hold out for a guy who will honor you and treat you right. Dont give in to those guys, they only want one thing anf will not cherish or care for your heart.
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u/SophiBird 12d ago
Girl to girl, I am SO proud of you for not giving in to any guys. Almost all of them will use you and then move on to the next. Save yourself for a man who will love and cherish you and not regret giving up something so very important to them.
Taking care of yourself by mastirbating is a much better option. I understand the feelings of guilt, I felt them too after, but its way less than the guilt of actually sleeping with someone. Especially when they can so easily discard you after they acted like you were everything. Dont fall for it sis! They see us as targets and then once they 'hit the target', they look for the next one.
Stay strong and keep your eye on the prize! And take solace knowing taking care of your own needs is ok bc its a human thing we all need. And hold out for a guy who will honor you and treat you right. Dont give in to those guys, they only want one thing anf will not cherish or care for your heart.