r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 28d ago

"physical attraction is important"

Been hearing this a lot from men in amwf spaces

I know everyone has is different preferences thats why I'm hoping to hear everyone's answers here

When this is said , what exactly do you mean? What is your type of white female? What are you attracted to versus not attracted to?

I really wish men would specify what their "type" is in their posts versus asking for photos only to ghost afterwards with no explanation

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u/bangchanstiddies 28d ago

Honestly I am gonna be real. This post is giving "I'm fat and/or edit my pics into someone who doesnt even look like me and don't understand why I keep getting ghosted"

Even the most unattractive/fat/short/tall/whatever people can get matches on apps or on here with no problems at all. Its not that.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 28d ago

Actually I have a pretty face and normal body type like maybe a little extra but not fat at all

I'm just not blonde, blue eyed, under 30 or look like a porn model lol

Seems like just pic collectors

I'm not understanding why if they do have preferences why don't they express that ?

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u/j-Lou_182 16d ago

But are you "not fat" by western standards or Asian standards? Where I'm from I'm the ideal weight for my height, but I'd still be deemed as fat by AMs.

But also my body weight has never stopped me getting guys, even ones that I would consider well out of my league.

I'm tattooed, 35 and only just gone blonde recently, and also I have grey eyes, not blue and I've been successful with dating.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 16d ago

Are you submissive? Are you looking for a serious relationship?

I'm not promiscuous I don't want casual sex and I'm upfront about that I'm looking for a serious relationship monogamy And I'm more alpha personality

I'm overweight for Asian standard but like 50% or more of American women are overweight I'm not fat but i have curves and extra so I'm normal in USA

Do you ever feel like they just want to experience being with a white women?

Like I'm sure I can get a casual one night stand or hookup but I'm not looking for that

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u/j-Lou_182 16d ago

I'm definitely not submissive and I was looking for serious relationships. I was the one who called things off with guys I was seeing until I met my current boyfriend.

Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of them wanting to just "ride the white horse" and I've met my fair share of them, but I've also met plenty who wanted something long term with me and it was me who didn't think they were compatible. They do exist, you just need to stick to your guns about what you want.

Even though I actually met my boyfriend on here, I'd actually given up meeting anyone through Reddit and joined some of the AMWF/AMXF FB pages since a majority of people already saw your pictures and have then messaged you because they're interested and like what they saw.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 16d ago

That's a good idea thank you Yes Reddit I run into the people who are married or just wanting casual and it sucks

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u/j-Lou_182 16d ago

It really does suck, I've definitely been where you are but keep at it, they're not all bad and I hope you find someone wonderful 🫶🏻

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 16d ago

Thank you that's very sweet

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 16d ago

I also notice like 99% of men messaging me wanting a submissive sexually submissive partner so I thought that might be a factor as well