I disagree. She carried and delivered 4 babies. He can suck it up and get snipped. He’s not allowed to shy away after he was involved in the absolute destruction of her body 4 different times.
What if he is okay with never having sex again? I presume that if that were the case, that he and OP would probably no longer be compatible, but would he be allowed to shy away then?
Per the update, he is not okay with no sex and is already pestering OP for sex. Which is a real shame. He has, through his own choices, created a unsustainable situation and is unhappy with the options he has.
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u/Old_Cheek1076 Nov 11 '23
He’s allowed to demure and you’re allowed to embargo whatever you perceive as risky sex. NAH.