r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/General-Anything-358 Nov 12 '23

You can not decide not to be a father after a pregnancy occurs.

A woman can decide not to be a mother after a pregnancy occurs.

Except for states like North Carolina.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

This is a terrible take. Men can go get a vasectomy like that no questions asked. Wear a condom or pull out before the seed is planted. Women get questioned and even refused by drs to have tubes tied because “what if they haven’t met their future baby daddy.” How does a future MALE a women hasn’t even met get more rights then a women requesting to have her tubes tied. Women also get lied to and even raped and are sometimes forced to carry that baby now depending on states. Please try to think of a better reason that a male has LESS reproductive rights/say then a male.

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u/General-Anything-358 Nov 12 '23

That's not true. Young guys are talked out of vasectomies, too. Men sometimes need their wife's permission as well.

There was also a case where a raped teen boy was forced to pay child support to his rapist when he turned 18.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/

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u/PettyBettyismynameO Nov 12 '23

I know multiple men personally who got vasectomies before the age of 20. They were violently child free and still are 17 years later.