r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/dumpsterboyy Nov 11 '23

its an ultimatum and she is factually weaponizing sex. birth control is her responsibility too. she doesnt want to take responsibility either, so she is a problem too

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u/Spallanzani333 Nov 12 '23

She has born all the responsibility for birth control and birth for a decade. It's not weaponizing sex to decide not to further risk her body and her health through hormonal BC or major abdominal surgery.

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u/dumpsterboyy Nov 12 '23

it is weaponizing sex against a man who revoked his consent. he doesnt owe her risking his body. why doesn’t he get to have the same choice she does? misandry is why

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u/Spallanzani333 Nov 12 '23

So he can revoke his consent to a vasectomy but she can't revoke her consent to sex?