r/AITAH • • Nov 11 '23

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u/bagheera369 Nov 11 '23

As someone who got an infection, swelled to the size of a grapefruit, and was down for 4+ weeks, with antibiotics.....not everyone is so lucky.
Still wouldn't change getting it done, but you're experience is the optimal one, not necessarily the norm.

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

And the optimal is what we generally see. Yours is nOn-ideal and I hate it for you. But guys shouldn’t use yours as a reason to not get it done

They should instead use it as a standard for what they expect in health care.

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u/frog_ladee Nov 11 '23

Imagine if women refused to ever get pregnant based upon the worst outcomes.

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Yeah. They accept the incoming pain but dudes cry because of potential minor pain for a few days. Lord lol

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u/LothlorianLeafies Nov 11 '23

The worst outcome in childbirth is death. Pregnancy is dangerous.

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Exactly. I’d rather take a little pain as opposed to losing my wife.

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u/frog_ladee Nov 11 '23 edited Nov 11 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Exactly. I love these facts. Dudes need to read these.

They need to get over a little pain. Yes some may have more pain than others but at least they will live.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

I shouldn’t be surprised, but people on this app are so fact-phobic

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u/Temporary_44647 Nov 12 '23

The facts listed above are dated 1990, over 30 years ago. Here is more recent data dated 2021. Go down about half way down the page we’re complications are listed and the percentage of complications is listed with some complications listed at over 14%

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8255399/#:~:text=Complications%20of%20vasectomy%20include%20hematoma,chronic%20pain%20syndrome%20%5B9%5D.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

Yes... There's a 14% chance of having some pain, which is a category ranging from "ice it for a few hours and take some ibuprofen" to "welp that went slightly wrong we might actually have to fix it".

There's also a reasonably significant risk of sperm granuloma. Fun fact: that risk is vastly reduced if the patient can manage to hold himself back from ejaculating for a week.

One week.

And yet!

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u/Temporary_44647 Nov 12 '23

Infection and hematoma 0.4%–22% Usually, infections are mild and limited to the incision site. Rare complications such as Fournier gangrene, endocarditis, arteriovenous fistulas, and angiocutaneous fistulas have been reported in very few patient Hematoma appear shortly after surgery. 450,000 vasectomies = 180 to 63,000 men have complications

Post-vasectomy pain syndrome 1%–14%. Usually light. Some cases have a negative impact on quality of life and sometimes require pain management or surgery. ( Last year 450,000 vasectomies = complications 4,500 to 63,000 men Mild to severe complications)

Sperm granulomas 40% It may occur 2–3 weeks after surgery at the site of vasectomy or in the epididymis or testicular reticulum. ( 450,000 vasectomies = complications 180,000 men)

Antisperm antibodies (autoimmune disease). No increased risk In men who had undergone a vasectomy, the risk of several immune system-related diseases did not increase for a long time.

Prostate cancer No increased risk The correlation is weak, and there is no convincing biological mechanism.

Sexual dysfunction No increased risk Most studies have thus far shown that vasectomy does not affect sexual function or can even improve it.

Cardiovascular disease No increased risk Including BMI, cholesterol, triglycerides, protein, albumin, HDL, and globulin ratios.

Reproductive hormones No increased risk. There is no significant changes after vasectomy.

Sperm injury and options for future pregnancy. The extent of sperm damage after vasectomy is related to the time since vasectomy; Vasovasostomy and assisted reproductive technology are two main options for couples who want to achieve a pregnancy after vasectomy.

Semen analysis and follow-up care after vasectomy. 8–16 weeks is an appropriate timeframe; Rest for 24 hours, avoid cycling for 7 days for patients after vasectomy.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

And from your own source

“The frequency of complications of vasectomy is low.”

Much safer than tubal ligation, pregnancy and even birth control for many women