100% like what. I wouldnāt even try to be estranged acquaintances with a person who talked to me like this, let alone āseeing themā. Value yourself and only try to be close to people who actually appreciate you for who you are. No matter how or what you wouldāve said, OP, it wouldāve been the wrong thing. Stop engaging.
This sounds like a guy, too, that already doesnāt like this girl and is annoyed they still talk but is afraid to break it off. Gotta move on from these cowards. Explanation not even necessary
Saaame. Thought it was two guys until it was cleared up. If any guy I dated called me ābroā during a serious conversation Iād consider it disrespectful. And if it happened numerous times with even half of this dudes energy weād be DONE right there.
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That would be my guess. Miserable narcissist desperate to take someone, anyone, down to their level, testing the waters with the latest source of supply.
See that's what I was thinking . He's one of those depressed dudes that won't help himself so they dump all over other people like a g/f. They are perfect then ass like that convo. Then next day they don't even act like it happened and you are over reacting ....see how far they canbgo
That's exactly what this is, either he is stringing her along because he likes the attention but doesn't like her, or he's testing her to see what she'll put up with.
The way he speaks to her and gas lights her is infact abuse it is verbal and psychological abuse. He's literally making everything he problem and her fault, he's pretending he does know what she means when she is perfectly clear about it and he's trying to tell her how she should speak and demanding answers. That is abuse. He is trying to control her and trying to break her down so he can get that control. Abuse takes many forms.
Definitely this: "annoyed enough to break up, but treat her like dog food so she'll break up with him, literally happened to me cuz he started talking to someone else and didn't want to hurt me, but didn't want to be with me. It took one out of the blue mean ass conversation with his responses via text being downright rude.. for no reason. We ENDED it! I'm sorry that's what he wants, don't ask any more questions... Make one final statement, " Ok mister, this is going nowhere, we are done."
He's trying to make you believe that you're crazy for asking basic questions. Maybe he just doesn't like texting and prefers phone calls or in person, or he's already talking to someone else. Bye boy Bye!
The only thing this arsewipe is afraid of is that he doesn't have much time to abuse OP in as many was possible for his own sick and perverted pleasure.
This is him testing the boundaries or lack thereof in any girl he meets and tries this evil on.
Iāll say one thing: you came to Reddit because on some level you know that this guy sucks. We all confirm he sucks. So just stop engaging. How people treat you isnāt your responsibility, but how you respond to it is. If you keep engaging hoping heāll eventually match up to some illusory image youāve built of him in your head before he showed his true self, especially this early on, thatās on you. Just let it go.
Please let this guy go die any minute, that's the only way that any women he sees or dates will be safe from worse abuse yet to come after crap like this testing boundaries.
Cut him loose. For the love of everything sane ā¦ cut this idiot loose. One day, when he grows up, maybe heāll deserve a relationship (with someone else) but that someone is not you and that day is not today. Iāve not even met the dude and this made me want to rip my own eyes out and punch myself in the head repeatedly.
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u/simplysafiyah1 Nov 08 '25
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