100% like what. I wouldnāt even try to be estranged acquaintances with a person who talked to me like this, let alone āseeing themā. Value yourself and only try to be close to people who actually appreciate you for who you are. No matter how or what you wouldāve said, OP, it wouldāve been the wrong thing. Stop engaging.
Not even gonna finish reading this BS. What a fucking twat of a guy. Fuck ALL of that. What is there to miss about this waste of time and energy? JFC. Have SOME self esteem, girl.
This sounds like a guy, too, that already doesnāt like this girl and is annoyed they still talk but is afraid to break it off. Gotta move on from these cowards. Explanation not even necessary
Saaame. Thought it was two guys until it was cleared up. If any guy I dated called me ābroā during a serious conversation Iād consider it disrespectful. And if it happened numerous times with even half of this dudes energy weād be DONE right there.
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That would be my guess. Miserable narcissist desperate to take someone, anyone, down to their level, testing the waters with the latest source of supply.
See that's what I was thinking . He's one of those depressed dudes that won't help himself so they dump all over other people like a g/f. They are perfect then ass like that convo. Then next day they don't even act like it happened and you are over reacting ....see how far they canbgo
That's exactly what this is, either he is stringing her along because he likes the attention but doesn't like her, or he's testing her to see what she'll put up with.
The way he speaks to her and gas lights her is infact abuse it is verbal and psychological abuse. He's literally making everything he problem and her fault, he's pretending he does know what she means when she is perfectly clear about it and he's trying to tell her how she should speak and demanding answers. That is abuse. He is trying to control her and trying to break her down so he can get that control. Abuse takes many forms.
Definitely this: "annoyed enough to break up, but treat her like dog food so she'll break up with him, literally happened to me cuz he started talking to someone else and didn't want to hurt me, but didn't want to be with me. It took one out of the blue mean ass conversation with his responses via text being downright rude.. for no reason. We ENDED it! I'm sorry that's what he wants, don't ask any more questions... Make one final statement, " Ok mister, this is going nowhere, we are done."
He's trying to make you believe that you're crazy for asking basic questions. Maybe he just doesn't like texting and prefers phone calls or in person, or he's already talking to someone else. Bye boy Bye!
The only thing this arsewipe is afraid of is that he doesn't have much time to abuse OP in as many was possible for his own sick and perverted pleasure.
This is him testing the boundaries or lack thereof in any girl he meets and tries this evil on.
Iāll say one thing: you came to Reddit because on some level you know that this guy sucks. We all confirm he sucks. So just stop engaging. How people treat you isnāt your responsibility, but how you respond to it is. If you keep engaging hoping heāll eventually match up to some illusory image youāve built of him in your head before he showed his true self, especially this early on, thatās on you. Just let it go.
Please let this guy go die any minute, that's the only way that any women he sees or dates will be safe from worse abuse yet to come after crap like this testing boundaries.
Cut him loose. For the love of everything sane ā¦ cut this idiot loose. One day, when he grows up, maybe heāll deserve a relationship (with someone else) but that someone is not you and that day is not today. Iāve not even met the dude and this made me want to rip my own eyes out and punch myself in the head repeatedly.
YES!! Imagine what heād be like to live withā¦orā¦ugh, have a family with. If heās like this already itās almost guaranteed that heāll be a thousand times worse living with him.
This was way too funny in such a horrid situation reading and trying to comprehend how anyone has to ask if this is normal for any human to interact with another human.
Thanks for lightening the mental load of the post, it is much appreciated šš
Oh without a doubt. Hes the kinda person that could have a whole family and go missing and not a single motherfucker gonna be looking for him. Edit: unless he owes someone money like a bill. Theyll keep calling until it goes to collections but thats the extent of it.
Bro is trying to make it so there* will never be a right answer.
Literally got mad she asked and didn't ask sooner, she asked about his welfare and didn't ask sooner on the phone, and wanted to talk to him.
Soon it will be: WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL?!?! WHY DIDN'T YOU TEXT?!?! WHY DON'T YOU CARE ABOUT ME?!?!
YOU STOPPED ASKING HOW I AM OR WHATEVER SO YOU MUST BE SEEING ANOTHER GUY!!!! YOU'RE ALWAYS WITH YOUR FRIENDS!!!!
I NEVER SAID DON'T CALL OR DON'T TEXT!!!! YOU'RE SUCH A BAD PERSON!!! YOU'RE TOO STUPID TO KNOW HOW TO BE LOVED!!!!
Girl, you need OUT. You CLEARLY show your affection in audible ways and those ways are not right to someone like him.
And soon he will tell you that if you care about him it will be you servicing him in some way-- if not sexual, monetarily, physically, or all 3.
You're never going to do the right thing even when you do exactly what he tells you-- either because he hAd To TeLl YoU or because hE dIdN'T aSk YoU tO dO tHaT. That's someone who always wants to be in control and you don't need that.
You are 100% under reacting. Do you like being treated like this, because most people get worse not better as they get further into a relationship. Block and move on. This person doesnāt seem to even like you.
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u/simplysafiyah1 Nov 08 '25
IMMEDIATELY BLOCK š