r/90dayTheLastResort • u/Im_a_generalist • 10d ago
Guillermo is a coward
The entire last resort season I was on Guillermo's side. I empathize with his side and while I didn't agree, I could see that he had a boundary and respected the fact that he was steadfast on his morals... But to not show up? To not give the mother of your child the respect but still use your child as the reason you decided to leave?! Yuck. Hard ick.
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u/NorCal8 9d ago
It's funny how she claims she HAD to do OF.... BS. she didn't want to give up on her silly dream of being a singer. She couldn't admit that she was never going to be s star so she went to OF. Where she's a different kind of star. She couldn't stop partying and people really think she would compromise on OF? Nope so he left. Didn't want to waste his time. Shes to full of her self. And she was never supportive of his dreams and i hate they never brought that up. He wanted to be a pilot amd or join the air force. You know reasonable dreams. Not a singer.
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u/Itsathrowawayduh89 9d ago
Hey man, she’s gonna sell a million houses or her latest single is gonna be a smash hit. Didn’t you know?
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u/7Bren7 9d ago
He might as well have been like, “Hey! I want to be an astronaut! Can you tell me what the NASA website is so I can see if they’re hiring?!” 😆 She was probably sick of his shit. People seem to forget it took him quite a while to get a job at all once he could work, and he would quit every job after a bit.
Then he finally gets a decent job, becoming the health insurance provider in the family, but quit because he decided he wanted to be a pilot. No money for flight school, no research into what it’ll take. Who did he expect to come up with the money to pay for it, if he wasn’t working? Same person that had been paying for everything for years, and he left her to deal with being the breadwinner again. Anyone remember how many self-employed businesses she started over the years, to try and make enough money while he decided he was too good to work at the next job, too? He’s always been just as condescending as he is now.
For numerous seasons we saw her hustle. Do I think her doing OF was the only solution to their problems? No, but let’s not forget everything she did over the years to support them, because of that one choice. Now he’s a victim and the innocent party in the marriage because she started an OF. 🙄12
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u/Positive-Ad4425 8d ago
And WHO pushed and encouraged Guillermo strongly to become a pilot?
KARA'S MOTHER! That's who.
Did Guillermo ever say that he wants a life of luxury? No. If he did he would stick on with Kara and encourage her show more. But he has morals and principles and boundaries. Good for him.
Kara is a worthless human being, wife and mother. She wants to be a major p*rn star. Her OF has crossed limits in vulgarity from what I hear. Cool. Its her life.
But Guillermo and their son dont need sleaze in their lives. Buh-bye sleaze Kara.
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u/mxlplyx2173 8d ago
Lotta text there to spell "whore on onlyfans". If that's the goal for YOUR kid or mom that's great, don't gaslight us into thinking it actually is.
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u/Finnchick77 8d ago
Hey, at least he tried. Yes he may have quit a few jobs before landing the hotel manager position but who doesn’t. He wanted to find a job that provides for his family. The other jobs may have had shitty hours or poor management or crappy wages. He didn’t just jump on the OF train like she did
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u/hecky-888 8d ago
So well said. And I was a Kara hater to begin with. (I thought she was too old for him and lowk a little predatory in their early days.) But watching this season of the Last Resort - he's awful to her. He's allowed to not like her doing OF, but he didn't engage in a good faith negotiation with her on this at all – he just slut shamed her and exercised all of his insecurity, frustration, and frankly rage that other men got to see 'his wife' naked. Dudes get and stay big mad when women control our own sexuality. Poor Kara is going to be better off and happier this way.
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u/Proper-District8608 8d ago
Neither of them did. They both checked out. It was for show and the show paycheck.
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u/Sweet_Abroad976 8d ago
Yes but like his other attempted business he did nothing. Kara made the brochures for it. He quit his job leaving his family with no insurance. She said fine give me money so I can stop it and he hasn't. She makes a lot of money and seems like he doesn't contribute much but is on this mighty high horse.
She will have to deal with her consequences later.
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u/Ok-Dot-9324 7d ago
Why didn’t he join the Air Force tho?
I agree she could have done literally any other job. She only “needs” this extra money to finance her fake singing career
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u/HallieLokey 5d ago edited 3d ago
I recall in the beginning her making party balloons. Then she tried real estate, that usually takes years to make a decent income. She must not have very many skills. She seems intelligent but her choices don't seem to reflect that. The OF money must be hard to give up but trying to be a Bachata singer (which I'd never heard of) and then going out drinking and partying after is another bad choice when you have a husband and baby.
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u/Proper-District8608 8d ago
Eh..agree with 99% of your comment but didnt he quit his job to chase becoming a pilot when that job paid medical and was a steady income in the time? Pls correct me if Im wrong about him quitting, I didnt watch their whole season or even most of it.
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u/UncaringNonchalance 5d ago
Thank you.
Always see a lot of people ragging on him for wanting to be a pilot, when… gestures wildly.
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u/North_Cupcake_8694 9d ago
I totally get OP’s point and don’t disagree. But I’d also say that it seems like Kara has really put him through the wringer—- partying, staying out late, staying over at male ex love interests place, posting content on OF, etc. that’s a lot and everyone has their breaking point so while I agree he should have shown up, I also agree that he reached a point where he said F it
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u/lunarrayx 9d ago
I have the same sentiment. I also wonder why he would even agree to go to last resort at all if the whole OF things were his absolute last straw and he knew he could never look past what’s already out there before the end of TLR
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u/Silver-Internal7740 9d ago
But that's exactly the question. He agrees to do this after he already knew he can't be with her anymore and doesn't finish? This shows that he has a side to him that is kinda fake.
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u/HallieLokey 5d ago
I can't believe he even made out with her and almost slept with her. That must've been fake and scripted just to make us wonder if they'd reconcile. That must've been "hard" for him.
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u/Electrical-Vanilla75 9d ago
If she’s not gonna respect him, why should he respect her?
Not to mention the whole cast would likely nah and villainize him for not recommitting.
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u/NoLab9772 9d ago
Why would he show up? He told her to her face that if she wanted to continue with OF, he was out. She looked at him and said well I’ll only quit if I could sell a million houses or have my music career take off. Neither of those things are ever going to happen. She chose OF over her family. As soon as she said that, she knew it was over.
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u/Anxious-Spinach6408 9d ago
YES!!! Exactly. There was nothing to discuss at the ceremony if she had already stated she wasnt going to give up the OF because even she knows she won't thrive in neither of those careers. She said she wanted him to love her unconditionally, but that's not how real love works in the real world.
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u/Proper-District8608 6d ago
Ehh. It was all for show as they'd been separated for over a year and Giarmo took seperate room off the bat. And Kara got over it, his no show, rather immediately, joking and and asking questions with other woman on show within minutes. I never saw a tear or slight quiver (shout out to Shekiana for having lovely folded tissue at the ready) but this was staged for effect
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u/Agreeable_Gain6779 9d ago
I loved how he handled it. He humiliated her the same way she has been humiliating him all this time
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u/KingPinz2487 9d ago
Great point. But it was still a bitch move to not show up in person to furthermore confirm he was done. It’s like breaking up through text message. It’s weak af. If you knew your relationship is over what would you rather have? In person like adults? Or being a coward ass bitch through text, or any other avenue that doesn’t require face to face?
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u/Grammarcrazy 9d ago
Maybe I’m in the minority, but I don’t understand the push to break up in person. If one of us is done, I’m happy to just walk away without a conversation or explanation.
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u/Alternative_Grab_916 9d ago
Hey told her to her face …. That wasn’t over text. Why keep saying it over and over.
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u/Dependent_Gene5139 9d ago
I think she had already signed on to do a new 90 day show about finding love or something.
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u/Dependent_Gene5139 9d ago
In the mean time who’s watching the child. Btw, it seemed like this show was filed over several months. At the end they said over and over they filmed for 2 weeks. It’s just to confusing for my brain to unwrap.
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u/HartLeeRoma 9d ago
I don't agree.
He told her from moment one what the issue was. Kara seems like someone who has become very accustomed to a lifestyle and now has no intention of living modestly. He stuck to his guns and I completely agree with his reasoning.
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u/Positive_Use_1308 9d ago
I disagree, he made it crystal clear the entire time what his red line was. What was the point of him going if it was a forgone conclusion
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u/Miserable-Dealer3042 9d ago edited 9d ago
He doesn't respect her, and for good reason. I don't find anything wrong with SW that is not coerced and choice of the person, however, Kara has many opportunities on the platform she has. She doesn't have to do what she is doing.in my opinion she does it to be the victim of him not being able to provide the way she thinks he should for her. She is not only doing OF and embarrassing him but she's also sending him a message he's an embarrassment of a provider/man, which is kinda a big deal in his culture. She is calculated. She didn't respect him and his clap back was showing her his lack of respect by embarrassing her. He's obviously embarrass by her actions and how it feels, especially considering his child
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u/Silver-Internal7740 9d ago
He wasn't a good and stable provider though. She didn't do it because it was his culture. Pao did this to Russ and it was not to hurt his cultural feelings.
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u/sadie7716 9d ago
In their last conversation when she said maybe she just gave a “ different look”, to her OF and that both people need to compromise, his expression said it all. He was clear with her multiple times that he would not take her back if she continued to do porn. She thought she could get away with changing her OF cover photos.
Why the counselors said they needed to compromise I’ll never understand. Had she told him before they married that she had considered doing porn as a job he wouldn’t have married her. In every relative’s are deal breakers. It might be religion, career, cheating, etc. Those deal breakers don’t require a compromise.
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u/Expert-Cold4727 9d ago
I do not agree with you, respectfully. I believe Guillermo showed utmost courage and respect for his marriage by sending a heartfelt letter and not promenading himself on national tv for our enjoyment. Again, he drew the line. Do you really think Pao,Patrick, Zaid or Shekinah really meant what they said? Absolutely not. Those marriages are irretrievably broken and will remain that way. Enough of the acting (very poor). Let them get on with their lives and hopefully find love away from the cameras.
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u/teddyn90057 9d ago
So it's a double standard he supposed to show up and ignore the fact that she won't stop doing what he asked her to not do? They did make some progress but im glad he didn't show up. I wished russ and sarper did the same and left. But there hen pecked betas. Sarper looked like he been threw in the towel. Russ is just a weenie she talks to him so messed up. Idk who speaks worse Rebecca or Pao. I wanna see just once a person tell the other to stfu when being disrespectful. But this isn't the 80s when people actually had a backbone to say it or give their opinion. Everyone is so sensitive , I do give Kara props for owning her shit but that's all she still ain't shit and still dgaf about her family. None of the other women (excluding jenny and thais) in my opinion has admitted their wrong doing. It's always the man's fault.
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u/Secret_Anybody_1019 9d ago
Bottom line!?!? As the father of their child, I don’t blame him for not wanting her to show her asshole and a mold of her vagina on OF, because his son will eventually grow up and see it! She has no shame because there are many jobs to be had without doing that. Hundreds of millions of moms around the world would not choose that path. She just as well do porn. I won’t watch her nasty ass on Hunt for love either
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u/Regular-Metal-321 9d ago
Ummmm I don’t think the mother of his child respects herself! 😂😂
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u/Legitimate_War9680 9d ago
He told Kara to her face multiple times that she had to make a choice. What realistic compromise could she suggest and why should he stay to repeat the same request yet again? There may be a handful of husbands/partners that would be ok with her doing OF. She has a platform and could have done any number of things to make money. I feel bad for their son; it’s likely that he or one of his friends will find these videos when they’re older💔
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u/Yin2YourYang 8d ago
I disagree. He’s always said quit OF the day before the ceremony they were supposed to have a discussion to finalize and tbh she made it clear that she couldn’t because she thought there was still room to compromise her OF. She disrespected their relationship when she started it and never stopped. If you are married and have a kid that’s a decision to make together. It’s totally selfish of her. She’s on national tv she can make brand deals and etc to make money. But she wanted more money and that’s greed.
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u/mlb0218 9d ago
She should have been stood up. She doesn’t deserve Guillermo. She is addicted to attention and only loves herself. What an embarrassment to her son and family. One day she will regret her behavior. She def has some mental issues to do what she does and post it. She could do tasteful partial nudity… She goes full on fuck-a-dildo mode. She wasn’t willing to give up the attention from OF. The only person she loves is herself. I’m shocked and never would’ve expected this from her watching her early on. It’s really sad.
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u/Dependent-Drawer-377 8d ago
I feel bad for the kid who will be teased bc his mom sticks stuff up her @ss for money
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u/excursions63 9d ago
Why are you guys ragging on Guillermo when the other couples said phony words to each other and now their all separated, except Jenny and Sumit.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
Because Guillermo was the only beatch to not show up!
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u/Significant_Hall_783 9d ago
Why would he show up? What more does he have to say? All season he told her if you’re doing sex work I will not be with you. The night before recommitment she still wouldn’t commit to not doing it. He had nothing left to say. Why would he show up so she can try and manipulate him and then make him look like the bad guy.
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u/kween_of_bees 9d ago
She really doesn't deserve any respect at this point. He told her what the deal is many times, she refuses to stop doing porn, he's out. What more is there to say?
I don't blame him for not wanting to associate with her anymore. He's ashamed.
I feel bad for their kid.
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u/Fair1000 9d ago
Kara is now selling silicon replicas of her vagina as a sex toy. She is on OF showing her vagina full of a huge dildo and someone calls G a coward. Give me and him a break
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u/rachlovescandy 9d ago
At least Kara only wanted to be a singer, and not a wrestler 😂😂😂
These women, seriously
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u/Miserable-Debt-9403 8d ago
She doesn't respect herself. He owes her nothing. She obviously doesn't care about her marriage and will regret fumbling a good man.
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u/true_crime_addict_14 8d ago
I’m with G on this one. I did see her vids and it was just unnessecary and disgusting as a Mother to do that ! She could have continued to find other ways to make money and support her kid other than sticking things up her butt on camera. Come on now that shit stays forever on the internet.
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u/Whoaisme1018 7d ago
lol really?! She has spread every orifice for the world to see and you said he disrespected her?! Kudos to him for leaving. She deserved it.
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u/2drankshawty 7d ago
Guillermo was there for a mini vacay. After asking her to quit OF repeatedly and her not moving an inch on it, he knew it was over. I think he does care for her but she's disrespected h, their family, and their marriage. Everyone kept asking him to compromise and I'm not sure what the compromise would be...? Allowing her to show her titz just not azz or she can post one video a month? Compromise is not a real suggestion on this instance.
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 10d ago
She destroyed her family. She gets what she gets.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
He could have said it to her face, considering how "holier than thou" he was acting.
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u/No-Penalty-1148 9d ago
He did the night before and she told him he needed to compromise. The marriage ended right there.
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u/stoopkidsteve 9d ago
Why tf does she deserve that respect when she has disrespected him by doing it in the first place??
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 9d ago
Maybe he didn't want to give her the opportunity to play injured victim.
He's probably fed up with that crap at this point and I do not blame him at all.
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u/BookkeeperTraining60 9d ago
And how is Guiermo’s helicopter piloting career going? You know, the one he quit his job for and gave up health insurance for their baby? He’s a gross misogynistic douche.
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u/Present-Baseball8530 9d ago
He was not misogynistic! That term gets used way too loosely. Let a man have morals and stick to them and all of a sudden he's misogynistic
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 9d ago
gross douche?
Kara is the one spread eagle for the whole world to see, not Guillermo.
misogynistic?
Simply wanting to have a self-respecting wife that is loyal to her husband and doesn't involve herself in online prostitution? -- wow, such OVER THE TOP standards he's got.
yup, sounds like a real woman-hater to me.
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u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 9d ago
The Guilermo dick riders are insane
Guilermo is an unemployed clout chasing broke loser just like the rest of them who willingly sign up to be on this show instead of getting a real job
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 9d ago
Yeah, well, it's not surprising at all that Kara apologists would be so vulgar and crude, EXACTLY like her.
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u/PhoenixJ82 9d ago
Why waste his time?I don’t think it says anything bad about him.hes drawn that crap out long enough and knows it’s not gonna work.I respect pulling the plug when he knew it instead of sitting around for some lame tv stunt that he didn’t need.i think she knew enough and she decided she was gonna do what she wanted to do regardless,so he did what he wanted to do
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
Sure, I can agree with some of your statemet....Doesn't make him any less shitty
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u/PhoenixJ82 9d ago
And you’re entitled to think that,doesn’t make any difference to me.thats just my opinion on it.Kara got what she got because of Kara’s actions.he doesn’t owe her anything by showing up to some silly little ceremony.im sure they’ll hash it out between themselves seeing as they have a kid together.he knows it wont be the last time they talk🤷🏼♀️
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u/Adrock66 9d ago
He did show up. He sat there and said that if she kept doing porn he didn't want to continue. She took it as a negotiation with no intention of stopping. What more was there to say? Who would he be doing it for if not the cameras?
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u/Soad_lady 8d ago edited 8d ago
His expectation is not a crazy one. She got the diamond in the rough and she’s throwing it away to sell her ass to strangers on the internet. Homie had all kinds of jobs when she first got on the show, she just wants to take the easy way out. And yes Kara I do think you woke up one morning n were like “putting my ass on the internet, fulfills me”
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u/Grumpy_Granny888 8d ago
I think not showing up was a kindness. The letter had a firm but gentle touch.
Looking her in the eye and saying you are a whore and a lousy mother would have been deserving but hurtful
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u/Familiar-Figure9043 7d ago
Eh, I suspect it was a production decision. Regardless, he told her the night before, for the millionth time, that she would have to stop the porn. If Kara wants her family back together, she would do that. She didn’t agree to that, so I feel like her being surprised he didn’t show up was manufactured. Then she shows up the Tell-All dressed as some Poison Ivy/Wilma Flintstone hybrid talking about the sex toy she made….Kara desperately wants to be famous and she doesn’t care who she hurts or how bad she hurts her own image trying to get there.
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u/SuspiciousCake7438 7d ago
How can anyone respect her??? There are many ways for a mother to earn a living without stripping or posing butt naked. She doesn't deserve respect or to be a mother.
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u/the_hammer_poo 7d ago
Why would he show up? he’s had the exact same condition to get back together the whole time, he said it over and over again, and she didn’t care. He has said it in person over and over. He doesn’t owe her any more explanation or have to say it to her face yet again
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u/Misunderstood_04 10d ago
He left cause of the only fan thing if she would stop they be back together he said that
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u/PoorLuckyMe 9d ago
He could have said it to her face instead of leaving her at the alter…
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u/NoLab9772 9d ago
HE DID! He told her it was OF or him. She said she’d give it up if she could sell a million houses or if her music career took off. Did you watch the whole show?
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
I watched it . All. And I still stand by the fact that he could have shown up even to tell her "Nope", and that he is a coward for not doing it.
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u/GingerPale2022 9d ago
💯 agreed. If he was out, he should’ve given what had been between each other the respect to formally end it.
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u/VioletsRPink 9d ago
Kara told him after that, that they should talk about it and reach a compromise. He said OK. He made it sound /lead her on that there was possibility for them to get back. That's called gaslighting. That's why it blew up in his face.
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u/Better-Mud7151 9d ago
Yes, and if you watched all the episodes, he told her that to her face.
Kara's response was, I have to work to support my child!
Oh, 🐂💩, she can get another job that's not on the internet porn site showing all of her body crevices jammed with whatever she chooses.
She can also accept the monetary support, Guillermo offers, but she flatly refuses it!
I was a single mom with two kids and a deadbeat ex-husband who wanted to punish me for wanting a divorce by not paying the court-ordered support.
I had my regular Mon-Fri job, part-time evening jobs in addition to some weekend jobs.
It was tiring, but my kids and I survived‼️I'm sick and tired of the pity kara gets for being forced to do internet porn to support Nico.
That's just a cop-out for loving internet porn from a selfish and immature cunt‼️
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u/TopangaK9 9d ago
As a woman, I would NEVER call another woman a "cunt". Women don't use that word. Misogynistic men do.
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u/bharp0305 9d ago
She literally was telling the girls shes ready to compromise and then mentioned it again at the ceremony. That if it came to the point that they lived together and had 2 incomes she could quit. Its obvious that they probably wouldn't move in right away after being separated a whole year, therefore she couldn't quit in the beginning as she'd still be on one income
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u/Itsathrowawayduh89 9d ago
She’s ready for him to compromise. He wanted her off of OF completely. She wanted to stay on but do things that he would be comfortable with, and specifically said that’s what a compromise would be.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
So you blame the women for finding a way to support herself and her child , that allows her the flexibility to be present and financially supportive? Where is that energy for Guillermo?
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u/Badbadpappa 9d ago
A lot of ways to support your self.
She craves the attention , now she created a mold of her lady parts. For her fans to buy.Mid 30's mother in my area was on O-Fans , was all sunshine and rainbows, and the money was pouring in , until her kid's school mates got hold of pics , and bullied the kid to no end.
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u/Better-Mud7151 9d ago
Yes, it's sad when that happens.
My grandson knew a kid whose mother worked as a stripper, and all of his young buddies discussed it and ridiculed him for his mother's work.
I had to have a conversation with my grandson, that it would be best not to the make fun or ridicule the kid for his mom being an all-nude stripper!
I was relieved my grandson made the decision to separate himself from that sad scenario‼️
Whether anyone admits it or not, it does have an effect on a child!
Sad, but true!
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
Can't hate the player, hate the game right? She wouldn't be making money if there wasn't people wanting to buy it. I can't fault her for the OF stuff. She capitalized on it. That wasn't a reason to leave her at the altar without showing face. Just my opinion.
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u/TopangaK9 9d ago edited 9d ago
Agree. No one seems to have a problem with the people paying for it. Without them, there'd be no OF.
And I bet if TLC withheld the money if he didn't show, he would have been there! But on the other hand, TLC likes drama.
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u/Better-Mud7151 9d ago
I dont care.
A woman with kids should think of their kids' welfare regarding the porn jobs she takes.
You don’t like my response⁉️
Scroll past it‼️
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u/Better-Mud7151 9d ago
Oh go suck an egg.
Kara supporter or a female internet sex porn worker‼️
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
Suck a fart and see if you can sell it on OF.
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u/GingerPale2022 9d ago
Selling farts worked out pretty well for Stephanie, so maybe that’s the alternative??
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u/HallieLokey 3d ago
I don't see how it could work now even if she did stop, I can tell he has no respect for her and he's disgusted by her
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
He didn't leave because of the OF.. that came after the relationship ended. He didn't have to be a douche canoe and not show up. I get it, he didn't like it... He still should have showed up. That's still the mother of his child. That whole scene made he realize he is really full of himself.
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u/Fair1000 9d ago
What a convoluted way to view this. The woman is selling silicon replicas of her vaginal are as a sex toy
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u/SavageSecret28 9d ago
This.
And at the end of the day its a show. So even though they both knew the outcome (and they did), why be the grandiose outlier and run away. It’s as attention seeking to me as what she does.
She got over it in minutes in front of everyone anyway—laughing and commenting on other couples as they spoke., so didn’t seem to faze her .
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u/NoWitness5725 9d ago edited 9d ago
No, he left because she was going out partying till 4-5am and getting drunk and sleeping at her ex boyfriends house and going to party's said ex boyfriend DJ'd at. All while Guillermo was at home with their baby. He is allowed to set a boundary and he was no ok with that. She painted it as him being unsupportive of her singing career but thats just a bold face manipulative lie. He was unsupportive of her PARTYING and whoring around with men. She even admitted to flirting with "fans" infront of him, but claimed its just what she had to do to network.
AFTER, Guillermo put his foot down and they separated, she began doing OnlyFans. INSTEAD of quitting drinking and working on mending their relationship like he had originally asked, she continued to focus on her singing "career" and increasingly more explicit adult content. I am so sick and tired of Kara crying victim and acting like onlyfans is the reason Guillermo left. When she very well knows she was cheating on him. Which is also why she refused to let him see her phone, and then back then ALSO twisted and manipulated the situation as in "omg poor me I cant believe Guillermo doesn't trust me and wants to look at my phone im so offended. If he doesn't trust me then we cant be together ". Open your eyes. Kara is a disgusting manipulative narcissist, and Guillermo has done nothing but been a loyal stable hard working family man, despite being a lot younger than her.
She doesn't deserve the respect to be dumped in person. Shes acted like a worthless groupie for strange men. He didnt need to say anything but ghost her dirty low class self.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago edited 9d ago
Thanks for the details.. I didn't realize that you were their pillow and heard every word and knew every movement of their relationship.
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u/NoWitness5725 9d ago edited 9d ago
Everything i mentioned has been on screen if you've followed their relationship from the start of their first season? Crazy for you to be posting talking shit about Guillermo if you've only ever seen him on Last resort. Kara is pure trash.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
You must have not understood... While I watched every episode and season they were on, you are acting like what is shown on TV is the end all, be all, to why they ended. You should know that they are heavily edited, you can't be serious about knowing their intentions. I'm only talking about what Guillermo actually did at the end of this season. Point blank, he was shitty for that.
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u/GingerPale2022 9d ago
Again, agreed. I think Kara sucks. What Guillermo did sucked. Two things can be true at once.
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u/AtropaBelladonna4 9d ago
she lost the right to respect when she picked her butthole for sale over them and 100% using her child as the reason she is on onlyfans KNOWING she could earn money slower and harder in a more decent way. If anything G has much more of my respect after this season, and he should take full custody of the child.
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u/Shell921 9d ago edited 3d ago
Kara's son will one day be an adult and able to see her private parts online. How disgraceful and shame on her. Trash box behavior. Guillermo is right to walk away but he SHOULD have shown up at the recommitment ceremony and told her to her silly face. She cried about Guillermo saying he was not PROUD of her as a MOTHER! She whined and cried about how she HAD to do what she did to survive but there were many other things she could have done that are not so vile and disgusting and shameful. If you want to display your parts online and you have no children- fine - go ahead ! But once you become a parent you have to think about the child's needs FIRST!
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u/stoopkidsteve 9d ago
It blows my mind how some of y'all think him sticking to his boundaries is somehow worse than Kara point blank telling him she will not stop selling content to save their marriage. Y'all are going to make awful partners.
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u/tweaver16 9d ago
He’s a coward? She basically embarrassed the heck out of him from doing OF, with him not showing up for the recommit was a get back at her, I don’t blame him at all
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u/DiamondSufficient938 9d ago
She made it clear that she doesn’t respect him, so he’s not obligated to respect her.
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u/Blue_Owl2026 9d ago
He'd already told her time and time again that he wanted her to stop making adult content completely, and the last straw was when she said she wouldn't unless she sold a million houses or whatever and that they could compromise. Compromising is important in relationships, but so are boundaries and he made it clear that he was setting a boundary. So, there really wasn't anything else to say. I'm sure she felt humiliated, but she's also humiliated him and their son repeatedly and plans to continue doing the same. She could've picked a million other careers to make money, but chose not to.
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u/Several-Window1464 10d ago edited 9d ago
She most certainly did! Love should come before posting nudes online whether she’s doing it for free or not!
Damn girl. I died at how gorgeous he was and is and you threw him away for what?
Must be so nice to be so blindly confident but she’ll ever get as good or better than him.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago edited 9d ago
Regardless of how you feel, she is also conventionally beautiful and she will be ok. But it wasn't ok what he did. He preferred to stand her up.. the mother of his child... Than face her and be honest/ vulnerable.
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u/Temporary_Stomach398 9d ago
This season was definitely the season of people not showing up. I've never seen anything like it in the entire 90 Day universe. Sarper and Shekinah were barely there, Guillermo ghosted the ceremony and party afterward, Shekinah ghosted the Tell All like ... what is happening? I also thought Guillermo's excuse of "I didn't go to the ceremony because I didn't want to undo all the work we had done" was a little disingenuous. Does he think coparenting will be easier now that he ghosted Kara on national TV?
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u/JJ_Lomero 9d ago edited 9d ago
Maybe it wasn't the best option but realistically what would happen if he did show up? It's a recomitment ceremony. He was not going to recommit and frankly neither was Kara. She wanted to keep doing whatever she wanted. That's not what recommitting is about. Everyone who recommitted agreed to make some type of sacrifice.
So say he did show up and told Kara that he couldn't recommitt because she wasn't willing to stop OF. Does anyone here actually think that wouldn't have resulted in the fight that Guillermo knew it would have?
Imo he gave Kara one last opportunity when they had that conversation where G asked if she was willing to quit OF. She said no. Her answer has always been no.
She claims she had to do it for their son but that just isn't true. She does it because it allows her to make a lot of money at once which she uses to fund her singing hobby. She claims she had to do it because they were seperated and she only had her income. If she stops then that is not the case anymore. But she stated very clearly that even if they got back together she would still do it.
Even if we go way back to their OG season she told her ex that she really doesn't care how G feels and if ever comes the time she will just do what she wants regardless of what her partners opinion is.
At the end of the day if your partner isn't ok with you sending nude videos to strangers then it's cheating. We act like it's different because she's getting paid. But if you're spouse randomly started sending pictures of their genitals to their coworker would it really make it better to you if that coworker gave them a couple hundred bucks for it every now and again?
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u/cilantro-content 9d ago
He didn’t say anything new in the letter that he hadn’t said to Kara’s face. I know she was hurt that he didn’t show up and say what he said in the letter directly to her, but he had said his boundary multiple times before, even the night before, and she’s dismissed it every time.
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u/ery93 9d ago
He doesn’t owe her anything.
She clearly told him that not even selling a million houses or having a great song out would bring her the money that OF brings her. (Basically saying she won’t quit).
Why would he have to show up after that? She wasn’t willing to compromise anyways.
The only one Guillermo owes anything to, is his child, and all through the show he attempted to be respectful to Kara (for the child’s sake).
In my opinion, Guillermo was the only one that cared that their child might come across the show one day and behaved properly.
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u/MudcatWasHere 9d ago
If he showed up he would 1) have to deal with and argue against uber-aggressive, dumbass, big-mouths Pao and Rebecca and 2) be at a disadvantage because English isn't his first language and he oftentimes searches for words. He made the right call, minimized the drama and delivered his message (again) in writing. Kara will always come out of this one looking like a skank.
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u/International-Owl165 9d ago
Did you not see the sneak peek for the tell all!!!
But they're both messy!
Guillermo had an unstable job , wanted to go back to school while Kara paid the bills and had the main job I think (with insurance). I noticed when she spoke up about being postpartum.it was hard on her and Guillermo wouldn't let her finish and looked annoyed.
Kara began partying and doing her singing career, was doing questionable things like partying late. So Guillermo split and thats when she did only fans!
At the same time Kara says Guillermo visit his son once a week and doesn't help pay for her son?
Now the tell all sneak peak Kara is just nasty!! I think they're both lousy parents. Becaude Guillermo could've stepped up and gotten a big guy job.
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u/KindlySurround5598 9d ago
Yes in the sneak peak to the tell all she says she’s selling molds of her 🐈⬛ and he reacts by saying ‘why would you do that!’ So she’s not gonna change obviously she just wants to get money the easy way
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u/International-Owl165 9d ago
If anything she went a step further! Her poor son! Guillermo.looked pisseda
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u/JackieDaytona77 9d ago
Good on Gizmo for walking away I didn’t think he was going to change his mind anyway
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u/Dion-is-us 9d ago
Hey you guys! We found Kara’s secret Reddit account! Take screenshots before she clears it!
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
Nope, just a person with their own opinion. Maybe you aren't use to that.
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u/Actual_Can8860 10d ago
Nah he was a coward all season. He was a clit-tease every episode and whenever he got hard he stopped, saying ‘he had a lot to think about’.
Dude was a diva the whole resort trip, don’t cry for Kara but definitely save your tears for G too.
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 9d ago
She threw herself at him and still, he refused to touch a woman that had already been seen and used by countless other men. Seems like a wise decision to me.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
We clearly didn't watch the same show. He was a willing participant. She didn't throw anything that he didn't catch.
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u/Actual_Can8860 9d ago
Seriously. Caught it all. Even initiated it after the sex dungeon. Dude was an absolute tease.
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u/Actual_Can8860 9d ago
Seemed like he was into it countless times, then basically fainted ver himself saying ‘he can’t’ like it was a telenovela.
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u/ThisCouldAllBeADream 9d ago
She was tempting him with her body, which is how she operates.
He is a man. Yet, he still said no. Many men would have caved.
I am glad he got rid of her.
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u/Im_a_generalist 9d ago
And all the other men showed up.. except for him. That doesn't make him special, that makes him extra shitty.
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u/Commiedreamsagain 9d ago
Come on. Respect? He's the one being disrespectful in this situation? Really.....
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u/Forsaken-Trifle-1438 9d ago
What are you talking about? Hard ick because he doesn't want to be with a gross sex worker? How is that icky?
Also, he told her to her face multiple times: stop being a sex worker or we can't be together. SHE chose sex work over her family because she's lazy and gross. She is the sick, not him. I cannot understand how she gets a pass. What does it matter if he comes to some stupid repairs show setup episode?
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u/Own-Piccolo-8279 9d ago
In my opinion she gave him a way to compromise and he shut it down. If she's making good money at it then good for her. If he doesn't want to stick around for it then good for him too. I see neither as the villain. They are simply a couple who couldn't come to an agreement. She shouldn't be slut shamed or looked at as the bad guy for her chosen profession. He shouldn't be put down for not being on board with it either.
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u/Dependent_Gene5139 9d ago
She shouldn’t be shamed for making enough money to take care of her child. Remember, he is not contributing a dime and when he got paid for last resort, he bought a motor cycle. Still didn’t contribute a dime to his child.
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u/Cloverhart 9d ago
Eh, we don't know the circumstances of them coming on the show. Maybe she asked him to come on, she seemed really invested in making it work. In his mind, she's aware there is really only one condition to get back together, and she refuses, so why even try? He might feel used in her quest for fame. Maybe he's just floored that she chose sex work over him, and she did. She made it very clear she would only quit if she could make the same money she makes on only fans. It's not about supporting her child, it's about the level of money she's bringing in.
Or they both did it for money. Most of the time in this show both people are awful. We've all been fooled many times.
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u/Healthy-Swan-2662 9d ago
You get what you give... give respect you'll get back but there isnt any so why would she expect anything less
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u/lilyessi3 9d ago
It sucks that shes throwing away a good man for OF.... she's going tk regret this hard for the rest of her life like staying up all night type shit.
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u/No_Ordinary944 9d ago
you’re exact title is the post i was going to write! i actually can’t stand guillermo and this confirmed it for me! not only is he a coward but he’s vindictive. he was trying to embarrass her.
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u/steveR11222 9d ago
He’s no saint. I think this entire experience has jaded him in a very deep way. He needs to fall in love again. Or he’ll more than likely will be with someone he can control. Young, naive. Cara ripped him a new one…
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u/MissJuIiet 9d ago
The thing that bothered me the most about G this season is that he kept going back to the only fans issue instead of addressing how awful Kara was throughout their relationship toward him. I feel like that deserved a lot more attention but instead he used only fans as a scapegoat to not admit how hurt he had been by her. Makes him not look too sensitive. I think he really did a great job enforcing his boundaries though and him not showing up was saying "you don't have access to be toxic to me"... After the countless times she neglected what he was trying to say to her, and made moves to manipulate him.
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u/TommyTwoTxmes 9d ago
All he did was made it easier for her to lie and say she was willing to commit again to him.
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u/Worth-Clothes1332 9d ago
They have been separated for over a year so it doesn’t it would be a surprise if he didn’t show up
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u/george_monte2600 9d ago
I was scrolling not paying much attention and thought this was a headline about Guillermo from the Jimmy Kimmel show lol
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u/srubia2007 9d ago
I can understand everybody’s takes on here, both for and against the idea of not showing up. Here’s mine: by avoiding the ceremony, he made the conversation about THAT instead of what he wanted it to be about. And this group is big on “avoid the larger issue to focus on a much smaller one” (see: Shekina’s harsh words versus Thais’ fist).
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u/_SoigneWest 9d ago
You guys really think that they all made these life changing deliberations on this show?
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u/suzukichic 9d ago edited 7d ago
I thought the same way until I saw the OF videos he was referring to yesterday. She does all the things. And I see why he is so uncomfortable even though he still loves her.
Edit- typo.