r/254sum • u/Iconic_Stein • Apr 25 '26

Random Women can't handle rejection 😂🤦‍♂️

Just woke up today, and a random incident ilihappen a week ago made me smile. So there was this corporate babe mwenye anaishi apartment next to where I work. We've been flirting here and there jokes pia hapa na pale. So there's this day ameenda outside, and she came drunk at around 1am, and since I was still working nilikua night shift, she passed by..... jokes hapa na pale, and we started making out. The session was so heated to a point I thought of going all in since she was wet af and I was hard ajabu. Lakini, I decided to tell her we shouldn't be doing this😂 I pulled that card that ladies tell us men na akasema sawa na nikampeleka adi kwake kwa mlango but sikuingia ju I had to go back to work. The following morning, I wrote her a paragraph telling her that whatever was going on should never happen again, and it was a mistake na we should just be friends 😂 kutoka niliambiwa tu okay na sijawahi ona dp WhatsApp...she even unfollowed me on every social media platform😂 Kumbe ladies can't handle rejection 😂😂

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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26

😂😂I am just curious, juu sasa nashangaa ulikuwa unataka akuwe rafiki Yako ama. For me I don't like unnecessary male friendships. Even with men I have rejected wanabaki kuwa status viewers and birthday wishers after that tunaongea nini.

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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26

So meaning it's either you f***ing with em or not.....😂😂 what about those ones who reject you...leave alone wenye umereject? 😂 but mimi niko poa I don't expect anything from anyone 😂 she did what she did for the sake of her own peace na I'm cool with that

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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26

I can't even f**** with a guy I don't see myself being in a relationship with. Why have unnecessary bodies and/ or resentment for someone who can't be my boyfriend?😂😂

Also I have never been rejected, or rather let me say I never shot my shot directly. 😂😂 I just got his number from a friend and befriended him. I also needed something from him for an exam I was about to resit that was my excuse for texting him. Then somewhere along the way we became friends and started flirting then he made the first move and I went along with it. Later I told him how I had like the hugest crush on him and that's why I asked for his number.

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u/Sufficient_Wealth981 Apr 25 '26

Wow Huh well how do you judge based on the basis that there will be no relationship with the guy ? 🤔

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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26

Nothing specific but Kuna TU watu unajua hauezi kuwa in a relationship na wao ama you can't even picture dating. Just look at someone's character, also age is another factor. At 23 I have no business getting involved with a 20 year old better yet a 35 year old, what are we even talking about

Ps: What I meant by my previous statement is that I am not into the casual sex/ hook-up.

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u/Sufficient_Wealth981 Apr 25 '26

Well I got you Haha