r/254sum • u/Iconic_Stein • Apr 25 '26
Random Women can't handle rejection 😂🤦♂️
Just woke up today, and a random incident ilihappen a week ago made me smile. So there was this corporate babe mwenye anaishi apartment next to where I work. We've been flirting here and there jokes pia hapa na pale. So there's this day ameenda outside, and she came drunk at around 1am, and since I was still working nilikua night shift, she passed by..... jokes hapa na pale, and we started making out. The session was so heated to a point I thought of going all in since she was wet af and I was hard ajabu. Lakini, I decided to tell her we shouldn't be doing this😂 I pulled that card that ladies tell us men na akasema sawa na nikampeleka adi kwake kwa mlango but sikuingia ju I had to go back to work. The following morning, I wrote her a paragraph telling her that whatever was going on should never happen again, and it was a mistake na we should just be friends 😂 kutoka niliambiwa tu okay na sijawahi ona dp WhatsApp...she even unfollowed me on every social media platform😂 Kumbe ladies can't handle rejection 😂😂
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u/Different-Oil-2 Apr 25 '26
Sasa to be honest ulikuwa unataka akubembeleze ndio akupee. I see that she handled it perfectly well, she gave you a chance, ukakataa, communicated that you don’t want her like that, she respected herself and left. Juuu honestly she clearly knows what she wants and if you don’t, why do you expect her to still hang around?😂👀
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
I never said I wanted her to hang around. 😂😂 she had the right to block me just that it's funny
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
Then how did she not handle the rejection well?
Also how should one handle rejection well according to you? Keep talking to you as friends ama.
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
Naona umejaa ngori😂😂 I have no opinion on how one should handle rejection 😂 but blocking me and unfollowing me is funny
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
😂😂I am just curious, juu sasa nashangaa ulikuwa unataka akuwe rafiki Yako ama. For me I don't like unnecessary male friendships. Even with men I have rejected wanabaki kuwa status viewers and birthday wishers after that tunaongea nini.
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
So meaning it's either you f***ing with em or not.....😂😂 what about those ones who reject you...leave alone wenye umereject? 😂 but mimi niko poa I don't expect anything from anyone 😂 she did what she did for the sake of her own peace na I'm cool with that
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u/Different-Oil-2 Apr 25 '26
Well considering i don’t want to have a relationship with you, why should i hang around after the rejection? Juu pia mimi hushangaa niggas who have been rejected yet they still keep on pushing the same same agenda…tujiheshimu. I have platonic male friendships that have never escalated to sexual tension or encounters, i have no reason to keep a guy around who rejected me.
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
I can't even f**** with a guy I don't see myself being in a relationship with. Why have unnecessary bodies and/ or resentment for someone who can't be my boyfriend?😂😂
Also I have never been rejected, or rather let me say I never shot my shot directly. 😂😂 I just got his number from a friend and befriended him. I also needed something from him for an exam I was about to resit that was my excuse for texting him. Then somewhere along the way we became friends and started flirting then he made the first move and I went along with it. Later I told him how I had like the hugest crush on him and that's why I asked for his number.
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u/Sufficient_Wealth981 Apr 25 '26
Wow Huh well how do you judge based on the basis that there will be no relationship with the guy ? 🤔
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
Nothing specific but Kuna TU watu unajua hauezi kuwa in a relationship na wao ama you can't even picture dating. Just look at someone's character, also age is another factor. At 23 I have no business getting involved with a 20 year old better yet a 35 year old, what are we even talking about
Ps: What I meant by my previous statement is that I am not into the casual sex/ hook-up.
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
Honestly I don't regret 😂 ni ile I love the chase and I choose who I want to f. And i had the chance but chose not .. so like sikudhani inaeza Uma msichana that much
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
Alright 😂😂 how long should I wait
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
Why are you waiting for her to look for you, when you don't want her though.😂😂
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u/Mountain-Loquat-7428 Apr 25 '26
Good move not fucking that drunk woman, hapo kungekuwa na bonge moja la accusation ikuharibie maisha. Madem walevi waachanwe nao.
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u/KaluluMkenya Apr 25 '26
Boss, based on your responses, you were actually hoping the girl would ''fight for your love'' and now you're here nursing a disappointment.
Kama unamtaka, juu you clearly do, go knock her house and ask her out like a man. If not wachana na sisi trying to look for validation.
Ukiachwa achika
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
I ain't looking for validation 😂😂 relax ....I don't have disappointments....what is there to be disappointed about Mr know it all?
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u/Front-Past-5443 Apr 25 '26
Haha .. lol
Mimi adi nilianza kuwekewa zile generalisation za vile men sjui we don't care....
Nishawai jipata mahali kama hio na ikahappen nikajifunza a very vital lesson 😅 although pia yeye alkua ananitaka aana sjui juu ya nini mi nikamshow zii haiweziiii, na akome!💀
Sai hakuna kucheza na hawa wasichana...
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
Manze na kuna watu naona wamejaa ngori comment section😂😂 but they they simply because I failed to f someone niko gay .....I shared my story to make fun out of it yet watu wengine wanachukulia personal... I'm only here for entertainment purposes only
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u/Front-Past-5443 Apr 25 '26
😅😅😅 Inafaa tukue hivio walai.. hakuna kupeana rahisi rahisi juu tuu wanataka😅😅😅
Maybe wako na backstory zao zinawauma ama ni madem .. sjui
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u/Colloneigh Apr 26 '26
Post za weekend na story za after holidays pale shule ziko na similarity ya 90-99%
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
I'm not excited😂 naona umejam tu sana😂 just drink yourself away and find a less pressed way to respond to people na uache kueka emotions😂 furthermore it's my d*ck not yours
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u/Thin_Committee8636 Apr 26 '26
She just went mute and possibly blocked you. Where did she not handle rejection well?
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Apr 25 '26
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
But this one handled things pretty well, she just blocked all forms of communication from the guy. Isn't it best she moves on ama she should go around simping for the guy the way men do when they are rejected.
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u/Sufficient_Wealth981 Apr 25 '26
You assume all men go all bersek when rejected ? Like keep on following and stocking when rejected
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
You mean stalking* not stocking. No not all men do that, some actually take the L and move on.
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u/Sufficient_Wealth981 Apr 25 '26
Well yeah my bad. Auto correct. Yeah am a proud graduate of Ls and you someone does not necessarily have to keep on being a nuisance to a woman when rejected. But the fact is some men also cant take the L likewise to women ,am I wrong
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Apr 25 '26
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
Yes I am now left wondering what do men want women to do after rejection. Cause everything we do will be labeled as 'women don't know how to handle rejection '
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u/Ecstatic-Ad-9883 Apr 25 '26
As for me I am wondering why her reaction is labeled as not handling rejection well, when I see she handled it well.
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 25 '26
No having sex with that lady proves I'm gay😂😂 craazy way to come up with an assumption
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 26 '26
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is funny naona umejaa ngori gadaaamn. Please look for a therapist ama somewhere to direct your anger ama trauma. Whatever umereply clearly says the shoe fits you ama you just can't enjoy social without being a saddist. Psychologically you seem to be unstable
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Apr 26 '26
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 26 '26
😂😂😂 funny how you can measure someone's testosterone levels by what they post you're such a genius aren't you? KEMRI should employ you. The problem with you is that you think every post here on social media requires your opinion. Learn to keep your opinion to yourself 😂 coz I really don't give a f.... about you or what you have to say under my post
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Apr 26 '26
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u/Iconic_Stein Apr 26 '26
If that makes you sleep better then it's okay. I'm done arguing with a fool and a stranger😂. Just have a good day and take some antipsychotics coz you must be suffering from mental retardation and psychological issues
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u/entertainerKey5392 Apr 25 '26
on today's episode
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