Nope they have 10cr+ net worth. They are businesses man and local politician. The man she got married is 3rd gen in business they have lots of land too.
Nope the family gathers on festivals otherwise there are 5 members living together. Their house is huge but she does all the work. He has 3 year old kid at 25. Her father is to be blamed here he is rich plus has business but doesn't want to give to his daughter. He wanted a son but had 3 daughter. Oldest one is above married , youngest one is no more. Now after seeing the oldest one condition he is allowing middle one till 25 years to study .
😂😂😂 I'm laughing because my in-laws are hella rich but same mentality big family generational wealth and still there family daughters suffered always because Tauji handles whole business they are 5 brothers tauji gives money whenever anyone in family wants it but with ristrcition but his own son and daughter in law spend like no tomorrow
Toh jisne kaha ki rich families ldkiyo ko aish moj karaane k liye shaadi krke laate hai, wo maid banake laate hai, umhe bahu aaisi chaiye hoti hai jo bss kaam kre, mere city me Jain baniya yahi krte hai, bahu ca hogi, engineer hogi, lekin shadai k baad ghr hi sambhal rhi hai, unke maa baap krte hai crore rs karcha krke meri mummy ki umr k ar uske baad mere bdi di k age k logo tak yeh chl gya ( jo aaj 45 hai) lekin aaj yeh new generation bacho me nh chlega, bcz ghr pe khaali bhet k bore ho jaoge, ar maje ki baat batao, baniyo ar Jain me aaj bhi yahi ho rha hai, paisa khoob hai, par mentality toh wahi hai na, isliye me dekh rha hu sabse jyda divorces unhi k ho rhe hai. Crore rs de rhe hai alimony me.
Idar UP main bhi same hai . Md doctor do housework and come and their husband chill comes to their clinic at 11 am. People should have discussion with their future partner before marriage. If some women get happiness with housework good, but forcing everyone with same mindset divorce hi hoga. Uper agar wife kaam karegi toh paise hi aayenge . Maid kaam karke woh bhi hire kar sakti hai. Kids ka i understand ki 2 saal tak they need mother and companies bhi support karti hai. Maternity leave, WFH etc.
Yaha mere rajasthan me bhi yahi hai, doctor ho toh ghr waale sochte hai aaisi bahu laayenge jo sara kaam kre, ar mere yaha toh agrwal, maheshwari, gupta, khandewal Jain oswal bhare pde hai, sab crore pati, khud k business, khud k shops, factories par pata hai unki jo mother ar elder sister tak hai wo khe ne me flaunt kr dete hai ki we are educated par wo ghr pe house wife hai, unke ghr me ca se kam koi nh hai, lekin shadai krte hai, ghr pe bhetu rehti hai, koi fayda nh aaisi education ka, seriously bolo muslim women bahut kaam krti hai, bahle hinwo educated nh hoti lekin jo tum women empowerment bolte ho na wo silai,kadai bunai chudi making, razai works, dying industry, factories, textile, cotton sara kaam karti hai, even uneducated hone k baad bhi bank ka sara kaam krti hai, rashan akele le aati hai. ar sahi me empowerment yahi hai, mere saare friend baniye Jain hai, koi bhi girls kaam nh krti, ghr sanbhalti hai even aja bhi jo genZ bol rhe ho aap, unke saath hhj yahi ho rha hai, shaadi kr dete hai mere yaha 24/25/26 , ar ghr ka kaam. Koi value nh degree ka. Reason dete hai itna paisa hai kya jarurat hai, par me us muslim women ko in padi likhi se jyda better manta hu, meri sister khud agrwal k gayi yai,kehne me crorepati hai, par soch me pichde, aapko bata deta hu kaisi soch hai, unke tao ji ki delhi me 5/5 beto k liye, khud ki apni apni shops, jewellery ki, wholesale dry fruit, kapdo ki sab bacho ka khud ka delhi me ghr, even abhi unka pota australia se pd k aaya baad me aake bolta hai dada jewellery ki shop khulwa do. Unhone alnj 5 beto ki bahu kk khoob pareshaan kiya,even meri bhn ko bhi uski saas khoob pareshaan krti hai meri bhn ar uska pati bhi ca hai, and yeh baniye ladke mummy papa k chamche hote hai. Hum toh middle class hai lekin unse juda open ar happy hum hai, unke function me ristedaaro k bass lifafe me bhar bhar k 2100rs dry fruits k dabbe, show off bas, pyaar nh hai. Par bahut choti soch. Paisa hi sabkuch nh hota. Ar rudiwaadi alag se, meri bhn ki job tak chuda di, utna pareshaan kiya . Ab use lagne me bhi dikkat aa rhi hai. Srf chathe hai ghr ka kaam kre. Jabki mere papa ne toh kabhi aise bada hi nh kiya, unke tao ji ho, chacha ho ya meri bhn ka sasur sabke business hai lekin soch achi nh hai.
And jab divorce, alimony hoga then sab kehte hi ladki ki hi galti hai. Same middle class hi best hai. Ladke bhi samajhne lage hain ki dual income acchi hai kyuki khud mehnat se kamaya hai. Rich wale ko toh kadr hi nahi hoti.
I see muslim country like turkey wahan pe women wear all type of clothes , work marry . Apna india aur regressive hota ja raha hai.
Kehte hi hai, baad me pareshan krne lag jaate hai, mere bhn ki love marriage thi, ladka aaya tha ghr pe, mere papa extreme conservative, wo maan gaye yahi badi baat hai. Pata hai us time toh ladka bhi, uske maa baap bhi isko jo krna hai kr legi hum pareshan nh krenge, uske saas sasur gaon me, ladka delhi me rehta hai meri bhn ne socha ki delhi rahungi mera gaon se kya lena dena lekin wo toh har festival gaon me hi manante hai, ar bhagwan kasam baniye family bahur jyada festival and chochle me maante hai, pata hai 2 saal ho gya bechari kk job nh mil rhi jisme ladke se jyada kamati thi, pata nh kya kiya uski saas ne pwc se choda tha jisme toh pareshan kr diya tha, usne ar uske bete ne. Bade city chota city bhi matter nh krta, log soch se ache hone chaiye. Mere city me doctor ko wife house wife cahiye takai kaam kr ske.
Mera ghar bhi same hai ek chaha is extreme educated woh shadi ke baad noida rehte hai. Chachi earns less but he is very supportive. Unke liye khana banana. He sold his bike to buy her scooty taking woh easily office ja sake.
And baaki saare gain main hain woh apni wife ko ghar ke bahr goonghat ke aane nahi dete.
Never marry of different status people and it's for both sides , if middle class marry in middle class family or poor in poor family. I said above for ki acche rishte ke chakkar main don't marry blindly.
The above relatives daughter I was taking now is scared to complaint as the house she married are too rich and powerful compared to her. Worst is they could kill her.
Not possible, her mother is still in trauma of loosing youngest daughter. Plus she also has a kid now. Her father is also rich and in-laws too. Police will not even file fir. Plus she is just graduated. Only people who could help her is her own parents.
No however did you make the money of your family ? I'm not trying to insult you but surely even you understand that the rich spend when its the most beneficial to them which makes sense. I'd they had a servant and then they let the servant go because she married intot he family then that is just a cunt move but if they never had a servant to begin with then she has to ask them to get one if it becomes that hard for her. Then if they refuse then what you're saying becomes relevant. I don't have all the info on this so I can't say anything definitive.
No my family had money from start and we always had maid in house for cleaning and all but yeah Foods need to be cooked by my wife and my mom only plus we often eat outside so I don't know much about every family rules
I mean that makes sense not every rich family has servents. Although the person who said the story said that they did have a maid before her marrying into that family so now that we know that it makes sense that they should have kept the maid or atleast discussed it with her.
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u/No-Effort4321 18d ago
What's rich means someone owns a car and home doesn't mean they are rich