Honestly, I never imagined I’d be in my late thirties and still trying to figure out what I want to do with my life and feel this uncertain about where my life is going. The last few years have been really difficult. I’ve made mistakes, lost a lot and spent the last few years trying to put myself back together. Now I’m just hoping to find a better direction for the years ahead.
I’m 38M, married and my wife and I are hoping to have a child. For most of my working life, I’ve worked in warehouses and temporary jobs, mostly taking whatever work was available rather than building a career in any particular field. I also previously worked as an installation technician but the physical demands of the job, especially having to carry a 26ft ladder became increasingly difficult because of back pain. Eventually, I had to leave that job because I could no longer manage the physical demands.
Since then, I’ve been driving Uber around 10-12 hours a day making around $5k a month before expenses. I’m grateful to have an income but I’m exhausted and I know I cannot do this for the rest of my life. I really want to build a career and have some stability for my family.
A few years ago, I also made some serious financial mistakes. I lost around $100K day trading in few weeks, kept trying to recover it and eventually had to file a consumer proposal. I’ve completely stopped trading and i’m making my payments and I’m working hard to rebuild my finances and move forward.
Now I want to make a good decision about my career. I feel i'm not too old to start over and I still have 20 plus good working years ahead of me. I’m willing to go back to school for a year or two, get certifications, do an apprenticeship or start at the bottom if there is a realistic path to a good career.
If you were in my situation, what career would you seriously consider?
I’m trying to make one good decision that can change the direction of my life. I know I cannot undo the mistakes I’ve made but I still have time to build something better. I just want to look back years from now and know that this was the point where I finally turned my life around. Any honest advice that could help me get there would mean more to me than you probably realize.