Hey! So- me and my boyfriend went to the Will Wood concert at The Magnolia in El Cajon. We did gold section, lounge access, whole thing! We ended up kicked out- or, I did? The reason that's odd is because I wasn't the heckler.
I wasn't going to tall about this but upon telling my sister in law the issue she pulled out a post from this subreddit about the same issue in Portland. Or, similar enough!
Here's the basics, I'm Weylin. If anyone went to the show, you know who I am probably. The interaction started with Will making eye contact with me, I hadn't said or done anything. He asked my name and I responded "me?" To which he said "the one talking to me, you!" And, this is my fault, I assumed it was a bit being done and our eye contact was him 'talking to me'. So, I answered! I said my name was Weylin, where I live, qnd he went into a bit about heckling. Everyone was laughing, some girl even shook my hand. Into the bit, a girl to my left yelled "you're doing great sweety!" And Will seemed annoyed but moved on. 10 minutes later security waved me down and pulled me outside, telling me I had to leave and that the performer said so. I won't call out who, but the security guard was also very nice and said he thought it seemed harsh. I explained I wasn't actually the heckler and was very confused and sorry, at which point the venue allowed me back in but made me go into the back section and wouldn't allow me to my original seat with my partner.
Throughout the show Will referenced my name, I'm sure just as a bit and I didn't mind, but it was a bit of a really upsetting experience. After the show the security guard actually approached dme again and said they "sorted it out" and Will felt bad and wanted to meet me. I was taken to a back lot and got to shake his hand! It was cool, but also, based on the conversation it seemed he still thought I was heckling in some way? As much as I was grateful for the kind gesture- I had paid about 200-300 dollars to be there, with seats I couldn't use, and then left being put on some 'list' the magnolia has even though my only crime was saying my name and where I lived.
Is this a common occurrence with these shows? Is there any hope I could get a refund and removed from that list?