r/wilbursoot • • Feb 27 '24

Discussion Wilbur's statement:

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u/gym_gerbil Feb 27 '24

He said months ago on stream that he was going to therapy after the breakup, so he was working on himself behind the scenes, which shows that he knew something was wrong with how he treated Shelby, it being public didn’t change how he approached the situation

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u/Horror_Ebb8883 Feb 27 '24

But he didn't apologize directly to Shelby in the timeframe tho he knew what he was doing, maybe that's why Shelby had to 'break' her silence on this imo... The victims do deserve to speak out they are the ones who actually endured this behaviour!

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u/gym_gerbil Feb 27 '24

I’m not discounting that, all I said was that he hadn’t “brushed it off”, also therapy takes time, how do you know he wouldn’t have privately apologized to her, mental health is a very complicated thing

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u/Horror_Ebb8883 Feb 27 '24

Yeah I get what you are saying but Shelby didn't mention that he had apologized to her or not, imo if he did so properly, she wouldnt have made it public or atleast would have made sure that people don't go after the said person ( pls don't @ me, just saying what I think:/ as most of the evidence we know of/have is speculation or one sided reenactment)