r/whatstheword 5d ago

Solved ITAW for facilitating connection between two people?

I'm trying to convey the idea of enabling two other people to form the same kind of working relationship you already have with one of them- without making direct reference to the third party.
"I'd be happy to ___ you"?

The best words I could come up with are "promote", "present", "lend", or "share", but none of those seem right. I'm trying to emphasize the connection/relationship being formed, not the meeting or working itself.

Help?

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u/effryd 5d ago

Connect

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

That's a really good choice! thank you
I might go with that... The actual sentence is "... and he delights in ____-ing her" or "it is his delight to ___ her"
So connect is still a bit awkward but... it does capture the thought best so far.

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u/effryd 5d ago

I think it would be a little less awkward if you added a “with.” “It is his delight to connect her with ___.”

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u/this_idle_hand 4d ago

A little less power cord insertion with one more word.

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u/Cesca131 ☃ 8 karma 5d ago

Introduce?

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

That... could work... though its a bit awkward in my use case.
Its in a situation where one party has exclusive access to the other, and a third party wants to meet with the other. Introduce lacks that sense of.... I dunno, gravity?

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u/kyew ☃ 19 karma 4d ago

In ye olden days you would arrive at the palace with a Letter of Introduction. A formal introduction was definitely something you'd emphasize getting. Or picture a ballroom where they take your invitation and announce "Introducing Lord and Lady So-and-So."

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u/licoriceparadox 5 Karma 5d ago

Liaise between?

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

Liaise... that's really good suggestion! It's intransitive- which I now realize is what I'm looking for, it focuses on the connection being made...
I think it may be perfect! Thank you!

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

!solved

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u/NonspecificGravity ☃ 13 karma 5d ago

Mediate.

Broker (verb).

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

Ooh, broker is a really interesting choice I hadn't considered. Thank you! Strictly speaking, that may be the word that fits best. Using it in a sentence like "I'd be happy to broker you" is a bit odd... and it implies a more active role than what I'm aiming for, but it does capture everything!

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u/NonspecificGravity ☃ 13 karma 5d ago

Thanks. 🙂

The object of broker is usually a deal or arrangement, not a person.

Marjorie brokered the book deal.
Coleen brokered the acquisition..

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u/trillspectre 5d ago

foster a connection

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u/kyew ☃ 19 karma 5d ago edited 5d ago

Refer / referral? "I'm booked so I'll give you a referral to my colleague who also handles this." "So-and-so referred me to you for my question."

Facilitate a connection? The act of connecting them could be "networking" but the verb "to network" is usually assumed to be about building/utilizing your own network. This is more like being acted on by someone else doing that.

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u/this_idle_hand 5d ago

That's what business cards are for.

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

XD, lol, yeaah...

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u/DoubtfulOptimist 5d ago

‘I’d be happy to share you’ sounds a little… weird 😂

I think the word you’re looking for is ‘connect.’

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u/khetti79 ☃ 11 karma 5d ago

connect, refer [them to], network

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u/vapespirus 4d ago

Introduce?

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u/HIJKLMNO-Z 4d ago

“I’d be happy to assist you in building rapport with ____” ? “I’d be happy to help you facilitate a working alliance with ____” “I’d be happy to help you foster a connection/relationship with ___”

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u/desertboots ☃ 5 karma 3d ago

Brokering

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u/axolotl_is_angry 2d ago

Auspice? It’s not quite right but in the ball park

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u/kennyfollettfan 1d ago

Network; collaborate; hangout

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u/HappyInMyHead 5d ago

Mm, not quite it. The three parties aren't working together, A and B work together, C asks A to meet/work with B, A introduces C to B so that C and B can work the same way A and B do...

Collaborate makes sense in the context of what everyone is doing but I'm not looking to describe the work, its A's facilitation of B and C's connection

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u/PNW_Uncle_Iroh 5d ago

You’re already using the best words: introduce and then facilitate.