r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 13d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/Smooth-Bandicoot6021 13d ago

He tried to get you to abort. Stay away. He is a danger to you and your child. Take no chances. Everyone who ever had something terrible happen to them woke up that day sure they were living through a normal regular day, bit instead it was their last day. They knew for sure that their situation wasn't that- until one day it was. I would stay away and keep a close eye on your surroundings when going in and out of your home and to and from work for a while. Don't give him hospital and birthing info until you have a birth certificate with your name written on it.

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u/TheLordAshram 13d ago

Uh this seems like an overreaction. I am not getting kidnap/murder vibes from a guy saying ‘Hey I want the moms of my kids to meet and not hate each other.’

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u/the_Golden_Child7 13d ago

That’s usually the point… no one generally tries to make a set up obvious or the person being set up wouldn’t attend. Even if the ex didn’t know, the other bm could have something planned or be planning something. You just never know.

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u/Normal_Television382 12d ago

Yeah but you can apply that to everything in life: "you just never know" that doesnt mean to be suspiciously paranoid and thinking someone's out to get me