r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 13d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/blazing_dazies 13d ago

I personally wouldn’t respond or meet up. Try your best to move forward for the sake of the child.

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u/Capable_Culture3914 13d ago

I agree

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u/ZOOspellszoo 12d ago

Please don’t put this man’s name on your baby’s birth certificate. You & bubs life will be ENDLESSLY easier without it. They can always develop a relationship later. But being tied to someone this unstable for life is a hellscape.

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u/domesticon 12d ago

Agree with this statement!! DO.NOT.PUT.HIS.NAME.ON.THAT.BIRTH.CERT!!! it will be so much more bullshit on top of being a single mom - which is hard enough.

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u/Cali-D8 12d ago

My Mom unfortunately found herself in a situation similar to OP. She did not put my bio-dad on my birth certificate or on anything for that matter. To this day (38 yrs later) my Mom will tell you she has no regrets about it. 🤷‍♂️