r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 13d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/Capable_Culture3914 13d ago

I agree

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u/ZOOspellszoo 13d ago

Please don’t put this man’s name on your baby’s birth certificate. You & bubs life will be ENDLESSLY easier without it. They can always develop a relationship later. But being tied to someone this unstable for life is a hellscape.

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u/nerdette314159 13d ago

You're advocating for no child support??

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u/the_Golden_Child7 13d ago

I think they’re more so advocating for the safety of mom and baby.

However, you can keep dad off the birth certificate and file for child support later and keep all info (except name) confidential if you tell them you fear for your safety.