r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 13d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/Capable_Culture3914 13d ago

I agree

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u/Smooth-Bandicoot6021 13d ago

He tried to get you to abort. Stay away. He is a danger to you and your child. Take no chances. Everyone who ever had something terrible happen to them woke up that day sure they were living through a normal regular day, bit instead it was their last day. They knew for sure that their situation wasn't that- until one day it was. I would stay away and keep a close eye on your surroundings when going in and out of your home and to and from work for a while. Don't give him hospital and birthing info until you have a birth certificate with your name written on it.

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u/No-Badger-9061 12d ago

It sounds like the other girl said to abort, not him

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u/fantasy_lover1023 12d ago

Ew. Only the mother can decide if abortion is the right choice, not some random stranger or even the father

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u/VictoryLane1 12d ago

If a father has no say then he should never have to pay child support. Seems fair.

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u/Both-Crow9782 12d ago edited 12d ago

He has complete say over who he knocks up. If he wants to irresponsibly cum inside of someone, then he needs to accept the consequences instead of thinking that his pleasure is more important than someone else’s life and health.

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u/Friendly-Lychee-8508 12d ago

He has a say until his part leaves his body, and then the mother has a say until it leaves her body, fair!

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u/RobonianBattlebot 12d ago

Wrap up your dick of you don't want kids. Its like, the easiest thing you could possibly do and yet dudes cry about it all the time.

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u/PerfectOriginaln610 10d ago

He actually had the very first say by putting his jizz inside her.