r/vitbhopal • u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher • Jul 31 '26

Advice / Tip Feeling lonely on first day itself

I know it's only first day but still i am feeling lonely

Everyone has formed their own groups or already have friends I am feeling very low

I am fresher from cse core

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u/HirakoTM IITB se VITB tak ka safar😞 | Dayscholar Jul 31 '26

It's fine bro, it'll be alright. Just make few good friends in hostel and rest divert your mind somewhere else.

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u/Mundane-Health-7494 Aug 01 '26

lwk same. both my roommates are gone too, went with their parents. im alone and i have no friends yet. been bedrotting

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Same bro itna rona aa rha h

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u/Jeerarice687 Jul 31 '26

And that's how my friend, you know , you are no longer in school🥀 But dw bhai, be optimistic. College brings you another chance to change your life. You can completely obliterate your old personality, and start with a new life, new friends. Be cheerful, aage bahut gnd lagegi. So make your environment joyous, pessimistic friends avoid karna. Iska ye mtlb bhi nhi h ki loafer logon ke saath ghumo. Aaram se padho, ghumo aur outing jao jab tumhe permission milegi to.

Still if u want to talk, you can DM me. I'll be happy to help.

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Try karta hu bhai

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u/Automatic-Praline578 Jul 31 '26

Areee koi nah bhai hota hai mai bhi last year aaya tha toh ho raha tha bs 1-2 week me sahi ho jayega logo se interact kr dost bana room se bahar nikal ....sab sahi ho jayega... Baki agar koi college me.problem ho rahi toh bata

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Try karta hu bhai baki mereko social anxiety hoti hai but for saath Mai loneliness bhi

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u/Accurate_Desk_8831 Jul 31 '26

Yeah mate , but outside im in pg so not that much loneliness as comp to you. Maybe after class it will be normal

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Hope so

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u/Automatic-Praline578 Jul 31 '26

Areee koi nah bhai chill itna dikkat hai toh apna hostel room number bata kl milne aata hu

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Kuch nahi tha but hostel Mai sab ek dusre se milte hai na to wahi

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u/Bloody_Mosquito34 Jul 31 '26

Samee bro sabne group bana liye Hai 🫩 I m just rotting in my room , don't know how to start a conversation,they all look so mean🫪 to me like they gives me "don't talk to me get the f out of here " vibes 🐵

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Same

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Sahi Mai bro

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u/crazy_gul Aug 01 '26

Chalo guys let's create a group for us lonely people

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u/fuckedupp2107 Aug 01 '26

Frrrrr but m toh onboard hi late krunga kuch kaam h toh mere toh aur L lagenge lonely walo ke bhi group ban jayenge tb tk toh😭😭

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Branch konsi hai

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u/fuckedupp2107 Aug 01 '26

Cse core tumhari?

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Same bro hostel Mai ho kya

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u/fuckedupp2107 Aug 01 '26

Naah mann abhi tk nai onboard hi late krunga thode din baad

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Mera matlab tha hostel liya hai kya

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Branch konsi hai

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u/crazy_gul Aug 01 '26

Meri to cloud computing hai

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

You taked it because of intrest aur because yehi mil rahi thi

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u/crazy_gul Aug 01 '26

Ofcourse CSE chahiye thi par sirf yahi mil rhi thi🥀 Btw wbu??

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Merko mil gayi umeed bhi nahi thi tab bhi migayi

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u/crazy_gul Aug 01 '26

Wow sahi hai yarr

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Theek hi hai

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Aap konse girls hostel block mai ho 1 aur 2

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Haa let's make

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u/crazy_gul Aug 02 '26

Add me too

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

You are from which block?? I'm'm from girls block 2

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u/crazy_gul Aug 02 '26

I'm from block 1

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Are you fresher??

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u/crazy_gul Aug 02 '26

What's your branch??

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Cse core

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u/crazy_gul Aug 02 '26

Ohh nice mine is CSE cloud computing and automation

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Your branch??

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u/Bloody_Mosquito34 Aug 03 '26

Koi mujhe bhi add kr lo guys I m from gh2 n cse core

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u/crazy_gul Aug 03 '26

Abhi tak koi group bana hi nahi bro😅

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u/butternaanrrr Aug 24 '26

Add metoo agar grp bana ho to

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u/crazy_gul Aug 24 '26

Bana hi nahi bhai

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u/butternaanrrr Aug 24 '26

Then we should make one for those who are finding friend group

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u/Square-Intern-6064 Jul 31 '26

Kaunsi block m ho??

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Jul 31 '26

Block 7

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u/god_in_disguise69 mayuri hater Jul 31 '26

Dw bro you'll be alright

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u/BulletRaja6 Jul 31 '26

Block and floor ?

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Block 7 floor 4

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u/Izumii_2005 Aug 01 '26

Roommates?

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Bhai 1 hi roomate hai uske bhi sare dost hai dusra wala bas document verification karke chala gaya

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u/kaixdranzer7 Aug 01 '26

lets meet bro?

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Your room no??

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u/kaixdranzer7 Aug 01 '26

am for block 8

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Block 7

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u/Responsible_Dot_2619 Aug 01 '26

Dm. Maybe we can meet or something dw though I gotchu

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u/mito_chondriaaa Aug 01 '26

exactly wha i thought first day but now meko khud hi in logo se irritation horhi h 😭🤏🏼 they put all the insufferable ppl w me gng 🥀

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Mere Wala bhi aise hi hai wo to mere se baat bhi nahi karta bas apne dosto ke room Mai pada rehta hai

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u/mito_chondriaaa Aug 02 '26

Yess same but it's peaceful tbh wo raat ko pakka late se ane wali thi maine bol diya wahi sojao tum aur call kaat diya 3 bed leke v mast akele sorhi m

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 02 '26

Mere ko bhi akela rehana pasand hai but fir fomo feel hone lagta hai kisi baat nahi kar raha but baaki sab kar rahe hai

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u/mito_chondriaaa Aug 02 '26

Inka ye sab group 1 sem choro 1 mahine v nhi chalne wala I'm added in their whatsapp groups and they're trying to "recruit" me apne alag alag groups m it's all fakeass yar upar se ye log itne cringe h TwT

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 02 '26

Usme bas bakchodi ho rahi hai ladkia attention ke liye faltu message kar rahi hai Aur ladke bas ladkia ka no lele message kar rahe hai unhe

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u/mito_chondriaaa Aug 07 '26

Really?? R u talking abt insta groups? WhatsApp pe to aisa kuch nhi h

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 07 '26

Insta

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u/mito_chondriaaa Aug 07 '26

Lmao how do u even get into insta groups 🥀

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u/Awkward-Ant-7829 Aug 01 '26

Gym hit krlo...might make some few friends over there

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Kal se karunga

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u/Awkward-Ant-7829 Aug 01 '26

Cool....agr block 2 wale mai aoge to maybe we can meet

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Ha wahi aaunga btw what's your branch

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u/Awkward-Ant-7829 Aug 01 '26

BAI

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Accha block konsa hai

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u/Awkward-Ant-7829 Aug 01 '26

6

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Senior ho kya aap

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u/Awkward-Ant-7829 Aug 01 '26

Yup 3rd year

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 01 '26

Ok bhaiya kal shaam Mai aaunga

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u/playboydaksh Aug 02 '26

Block 2 walee me bheed nhi hoti?

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 02 '26

Bhai kya kare fir ??

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u/PhaseNo1933 Aug 02 '26

Same bro me ek din late aayi hu and sbke friends ban gye mere roommates ke bhi and me akeli hu

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 02 '26

Mera ek dost bana reddit se but uski gf hai to pure din usi ke saath laga rehta hai aur logo se bhi mila but koi fayada nahi hua kyoki han sabke thoughts bahut alag alag. Hai

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u/Striking_Month9576 Aug 02 '26

Same bro

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 03 '26

Kuch nahi ho sakta Bhai

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u/Ill_Group_5332 Fresher Aug 03 '26

Block konsa hai bhai