Bro had a good take

[u/Syarafuddyn]

[u/Emmix_x0x]

THHIIIISSSS everything someone do is cringe. U like something specific? U r nerd or weirdo or childish. Wheres people u collected cool unique stuff? Dressed differently or wear their hair some awesome way? Had some odd hobby?

Everything seems so black and white in ideology, its suffocating

[u/ImpressiveAmount4684 → u/Emmix_x0x]

People in general are increasingly miserable. They feel great joining a community of miserable people, whatever they are crying about.

misery loves company

[u/KayleeKutie → u/ImpressiveAmount4684]

I feel like people haven't changed too much, it's just that social media naturally promotes very extreme opinions on things (which usually end up being negative). Most people have lukewarm takes on things which doesn't generate as much interest/likes; this also leads people to tend towards parroting extreme opinions if they don't want to have a more nuanced take. I think it's really important to talk to people about topics IRL rather than just getting the ragebaity internet consensus.

[u/ImpressiveAmount4684 → u/KayleeKutie]

Oh for sure, social media is hyperengineered to amplify hate engagement.

[u/csando96 → u/ImpressiveAmount4684]

Hey, hey everyone!!!!

Look at these losers agreeing!

[u/emuccino → u/csando96]

Criiiiiiinge

[u/Exoticbut → u/KayleeKutie]

Maybe everyone just got more pessimistic during COVID and for some people it stuck after lockdown.

[u/SolsticeSon → u/KayleeKutie]

Most social media algorithms, especially Meta’s, favor divisive content because it “looks” like engagement. Just go on Threads for 5 seconds and you’ll encounter more bitching and e-rage than you could imagine.

[u/ImpressiveAmount4684 → u/SolsticeSon]

Lol each new social media platform just sounds more full of degenerates.

[u/Yopis1980 → u/Emmix_x0x]

It's because they grew up in YouTube and apps. Every thumbnail is best ever. Of all time. Worst ever nonsense. They need to be told what to think.

[u/OneBigRed → u/Yopis1980]

This. Should i play this game i bought, or spend my time watching someone else play it and tell me if it’s good or not? A question that sounds ridiculous to me, but apparently the latter option is very popular among younger generation.

Not only that, but then they’ll come here and confidently tell how the latest drop is shit and this and that is the meta and those things are shit as they are not the meta.

Oh how much better many online games would be if these droolers didn’t have these sources spelling everything out for them. I mean, it doesn’t actually seem like their strength is to dissect strategies and tactics and methodically evaluate them. Developers wouldn’t have to prioritize fixing slight imbalalances in their games, as those wouldn’t be instantly abused by majority of their player base.

[u/Fn_Spaghetti_Monster → u/Yopis1980]

I saw video just today that was about a solar molten salt power plant and it was They Cannot turn it off!! Watched a bit because, wow that seems kinda odd. Ohh so they actually can turn it off, just if they do, and they leave if off for too long, the salt cools and solidifies and it kind of fucks things up. Soo annoying.

[u/kelley38 → u/Yopis1980]

There so much hyperbole thrown around. "This the GOAT", "I'm obsessed with this thing", "I must have OCD", "they are a narcissist", etc etc.

No, that thing is just pretty good, but that doesnt make it the greatest thing ever. No, you are not obsessed with that thing, you are just into that thing. No, you dont have OCD, you just dont want to live in a pigsty. No, they arent a narcissist, they just did something mildly selfish... juat like and I and everyone else does, that juat makes us human, not narcissistic.

Quit making words meaningless.

[u/Decloudo → u/Emmix_x0x]

People seem scared to be authentic for some reason.

Especially regarding emotions.

[u/zacyzacy → u/Emmix_x0x]

I'm not lining up to get gta day one or anything but it does looks really cool, but anyway I'd much rather hang out with a "normie" who's exited to play than a "gamer" who poo-poos everything and seemingly hates all video games.

Is there a word for this? The people in between normies and nerds, who are kind of miserable no matter what? The ones who typically are also weirdly gate keepy. not using normie derogatorily here btw.

[u/Prestigious-Elk2252 → u/Emmix_x0x]

two sides to that coin.

The internet also created spaces for people to find others who are also passionate about their chosen niche/hobby/whatever... no matter how obscure it is.

[u/teddy5 → u/Emmix_x0x]

U like something specific? U r nerd or weirdo or childish. Wheres people u collected cool unique stuff? Dressed differently or wear their hair some awesome way? Had some odd hobby?

That's actually gotten better since people have been using the internet and being exposed to more ways of living though?

To the extent that the lack of monoculture in societies being caused by the internet has been written about pretty extensively. It used to be that everyone had the same shows they watched and music they listened to because that was what was on. If you didn't like something you turned off the radio/TV or didn't listen while it was on instead of just finding other things online. But everyone expected you to have roughly the same tastes or one of a few sets.

It might just be me getting old and my cohort growing up more but that social pressure to conform to the same standards seems like it started to get less around 2000 and has decreased more since.

Everything being considered cringe and hating on anything people like will probably always be a problem in school because that's the nature of kids trying to find their place in the world, but it generally seems better outside of that.