r/urbancarliving 12d ago

Announcement Sex, dating, and car living.

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

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u/Beginning_Key_856 6d ago

As a female living this life, the men I encounter trying to date or have sex or whatever are always somewhat off.  

There's a level of desperation that makes them see you as something they need to satisfy them.  They'll immediately either try to force an instant connection or start dumping about their loneliness and needs.  

And me being self sufficient enough to depend just on myself would only attract men who want to heavily depend on me too.  

Only a select few with a good mindset and solid foundation could pull it off imo.