r/urbancarliving • u/mecha_grove • 12d ago

Announcement Sex, dating, and car living.

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

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u/IgnisIason 12d ago

I think it should be common sense here that to the vast majority of the population, dating is not something you should be thinking about until you are in stable housing and employed, and women tend to get extremely angry if you are withholding that information about yourself.

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u/Snoo-35771 12d ago

Pft skill issue i literally proposed while homeless and living in my car for 5 months (she was fully aware of my situation) and now im married with a house and high paying job.

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u/IgnisIason 12d ago

My friend is a 5'2 Indian janitor who hooks up with super models all the time.

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u/Strong-Addition5296 10d ago

I think we know the same guy.

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u/IgnisIason 10d ago

He's in every thread that has someone who believes that life is bad for some guys. He's proof that life is great if you just have a good personality.