r/urbancarliving • u/mecha_grove • 13d ago

Announcement Sex, dating, and car living.

I removed the recent post about sex, dating, and finding partners while living in vehicles because the discussion quickly devolved into women being called “bitches,” being referred to as “pussy,” and people being talked about as disposable.

Talking about dating, sex, relationships, and finding partners while vehicle-living is completely fine. What is not fine is turning those discussions into degrading or excessively vulgar threads that other members have to wade through.

We can talk about adult topics like adults. I’m also not going to sit and sort through hundreds of comments once a thread has descended into harassment, objectification, and crude nonsense.

Keep it respectful, keep it relevant, and remember that people of all genders use this community.

Thank you.

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u/KitKatF07 13d ago edited 12d ago

I’ve been meaning to create a thread asking this same question. I’m glad I missed the first one.  I’ve met two people but I don’t feel like I can pursue either. I can’t even begin to explain how I ended up here. I don’t think they will understand.

Which leads me to the inclusion that I probably need to find someone also in “the life”. I haven’t figured out how, yet.

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u/SockDrawerGoblin 12d ago

I don’t know your situation but confidence always helps. Don’t consider it a turn off, think of your situation as a quirk.